It sounds like you're insecure about your weight, which is not your boyfriend's fault. He probably likes you because of who you are on the inside, so if you are really that concerned about your weight maybe you should take matters in your own hands and join a gym. Lose some weight so YOU feel attractive and don't need him to reassure you. Do it for you, and do it for your health because chances are this boyfriend won't last, especially if you are exposing him to your insecurities - something that is a universal turn off in all relationships.
Just to clarify, I'm not saying only slim people can maintain relationships, I'm just saying you need to do something for yourself so you feel more comfortable in your own skin. Whether that's pursuing fitness or doing some soul searching and decided you're okay with being overweight - it's totally up to you.
So yes, it's not normal to believe him, a man is obviously going to tell his partner what she wants to hear to spare her feelings - even if he is sincere he's not going to say anything that will damage your already fragile self esteem.
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It sounds like you're insecure about your weight, which is not your boyfriend's fault. He probably likes you because of who you are on the inside, so if you are really that concerned about your weight maybe you should take matters in your own hands and join a gym. Lose some weight so YOU feel attractive and don't need him to reassure you. Do it for you, and do it for your health because chances are this boyfriend won't last, especially if you are exposing him to your insecurities - something that is a universal turn off in all relationships.
Just to clarify, I'm not saying only slim people can maintain relationships, I'm just saying you need to do something for yourself so you feel more comfortable in your own skin. Whether that's pursuing fitness or doing some soul searching and decided you're okay with being overweight - it's totally up to you.
So yes, it's not normal to believe him, a man is obviously going to tell his partner what she wants to hear to spare her feelings - even if he is sincere he's not going to say anything that will damage your already fragile self esteem.