Is it normal that my boyfriend fingered and had sex with me when i was sleeping

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My boyfriend and I were in bed and I always fall sleep before him. He put his hand on my ass and cuddled me which is just the normal. I think he thought I must have been asleep because he whispered my name and when I didnt answer he started to rub my ass and I pretended to be alseep to see what he would do. He started to rub the out side of my vagina with his fingers and I stirred a little bit to see if he stopped because he thought I was waking up and he stopped. 5 minutes later he started to carry on again thinking I was asleep and this time he put his finger inside me and he started to slowly finger me!! He was breathing really heavy and kind of dry humping my leg i think it was turning him on? I pretended to be a sleep the whole time and it seemed like the more he thought i wasnt going to wake up the hornier he got. He had got 3 fingers inside me and started muttering stuff like dirty stuff and then he started to rub my anus. I really wanted to stop him but I wanted to see what he would do to me because he thought i was sleeping. He started to push his finger into my ass and started masturbating him self and I heard him call me a whore. I rolled over at this point and he quickly pulled everything away because I think he thought I was waking up. He left me again for about 5 minutes and then he pulled my legs apart really slowly and kind of moved so he was straddeling me. He kept his body off of me obviously so i wouldnt wake!! and then i felt him pull my ass apart and he pushed the tip of his cock inside my anus and it made me move because it hurt he has never done anything with my ass before!!! When i moved he grabbed me and just told me to take it and he shoved his whole cock inside me. I must admit I was so freaked out at the fact of what he had been doing to me when he thought i was sleeping that it turned me on that much and I let him have sex with me. We have never spoke about it afterwords. I know this is long but i need to know if any one ese has done this or had this done to them? Is it normal for your boyfriend to want to fuck you but when he knows your definately asleep!!?

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  • Stifler
    9 years ago | pl

    That is called rape my friend.

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago | pl

    #1 is you didn't want the sex, then just tell him no

    by not "waking up" he may had either be into the idea having sex when your asleep, or at least pretending of being. If it wasn't mutual then how would he know if you didn't say.

    Side note: it was probably dark, maybe he got the wrong hole by accident lol

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    • (s)aint
      9 years ago | pl

      An anus and a vagina feels different ... At least as long as the anus isn't already fingered and lubed up that is.

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago | pl

        Some women bleach their buttholes for some odd cosmetic reasons.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      9 years ago | pl

      This.

      Cos if the OP didn't want it then the time to say "no" is when it started.

      One can't play the "he had sex with me when I was asleep!" card when one wasn't really asleep.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    9 years ago | pl

    I agree with Stifler, trying to have sex with you without your consent is rape.

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  • DizzyDazzle
    9 years ago | pl

    The thing is if you want it you allow it. If you don't tell him you dont like it. Then he won't do it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    I'm a bit confused how to answer this because you said you liked it. Normally this is something that should be discussed prior to happening. Having an open conversation about whether it is ok to have sex while the other person is sleeping is important. I remember telling my ex-gf I would like her to have sex with me while I was sleeping and she said she would like it too but it never happened and when I tried she would wake up annoyed and not want to have sex which was confusing for me. I have noticed girls will often say they are into something but back out when it came down to actually happening.

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  • peterr
    9 years ago | pl

    If you didn't awaken he is a dud!

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  • bishophollett
    9 years ago | pl

    god let me do it to sexy that's hot

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