IIN that my boyfriend feels differently now that i.m pregnant?

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  • men blame everything on our hormones
    its bullshit
    because even when you come out after you have the baby your still the same person, same you.
    okay so when we are pregnant our hormones may change a little as in we may cry for something we don't have such as a certain food we crave(because we are pregnant)
    but over all it is not the reason why the men or little immature boys should be acting.obviously he isn't ready for a fkn kid.
    and they always love to blame everything on US.
    my husband when we got pregnant-this was before we got engaged even. i left him because he didn't want her, and he kept listening to all his fake ass friends telling him to tell me to get an abortion and break up with me. funny how things change in the end. i was the one that left his sorry ass out on a fkn rope because he never cared for me or did shit for me or the baby. your bf may end up not accepting that he is having a child(baby) whatever you may want to call it. -you will be very lucky one in million if he comes through and accepts it. but i doubt it since you say he hasn't been there and hasn't even felt his unborn kicking through your belly and thats just sad.
    my boyfriend at the time came though(came around by the 4th month of my pregnancy and starting taking care of me(her) and he went to the ultra sounds with me and everything. sometimes he couldn't make it cause he had to work but he came a few times that he could.
    i don't know how old you two are so i can't say much more. other than that i only wish you and your baby the best future. and remember if your bf is ignoring you being distant and it hurts you. put him aside and stop thinking of him period. because what ever emotion you feel the baby will feel and the baby will grow up emotionally traumatized or messed up like my friend's daughter is. you and baby deserve best. so only think positive and a baby is not the best decision but it happens whether we wanted it or not.

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