No- I get it. Recent BF was the same- and I KNOW he thinks I'm hot. It was him- he felt bad about himself, and I think maybe he wanted me to attack him, take him, not take no for an answer. [men seem to like sexually aggressive women- even the ones that say they don't like whores. Bull.] I couldn't do it not KNOWING if he really wanted it or me. VERY frustrating.
It was [in my opinion] too much sugar, horrible diet, led to no libido, no stamina. He claimed tired and stressed-- his life WAS very stressful for a bit, but it was more. Refused to talk about it, we just drifted- he deliberately kept me at arms length, got to where I just got too tired of trying. My self esteem is not low enough to chase after someone that "likes having me around" but is so un-affectionate.
If he refuses to talk about it, there are several other issues- SOY is one-- turns them into girls- just watch, keep asking, and finally, leave before committing too much of your life to him. You deserve more. I need to be touched, and kissed, and not feel so badly about myself. I didn't used to, do not now...
IIN that my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me?
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No- I get it. Recent BF was the same- and I KNOW he thinks I'm hot. It was him- he felt bad about himself, and I think maybe he wanted me to attack him, take him, not take no for an answer. [men seem to like sexually aggressive women- even the ones that say they don't like whores. Bull.] I couldn't do it not KNOWING if he really wanted it or me. VERY frustrating.
It was [in my opinion] too much sugar, horrible diet, led to no libido, no stamina. He claimed tired and stressed-- his life WAS very stressful for a bit, but it was more. Refused to talk about it, we just drifted- he deliberately kept me at arms length, got to where I just got too tired of trying. My self esteem is not low enough to chase after someone that "likes having me around" but is so un-affectionate.
If he refuses to talk about it, there are several other issues- SOY is one-- turns them into girls- just watch, keep asking, and finally, leave before committing too much of your life to him. You deserve more. I need to be touched, and kissed, and not feel so badly about myself. I didn't used to, do not now...