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I've had a few boys fuck me and they made various grunt, moans and sighs when they cummed, but my new boyfriend just gets off without making any noise at all. It's like he's not enjoying it.
Okay, your work is cut out for you. You are going to have to teach this guy that talking dirty in bed is FUN. To do this, you will need lots of COMPLIMENTS. Like, “You’re such a delicious animal when you say your stiff cock wants to fuck my wet pussy.”
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Some guys are like that. Some guys are generally taciturn. Some guys might feel that making any sounds during sex would be animalistic or some such shit. Hell, some guys could be so stupid that they believe that making any sounds would be a sign of weakness or unmanliness.
However, I think what it very often comes down to is that the vast majority of boys masturbate from a fairly young age, they know that they'll be caught at it by their parents or siblings if they make any sounds, and so they train themselves to stay silent.
Not making an effort to break that habit is really pretty stupid though. Anybody with any sense realises that if you're engaged in any sort of joint activity with another person, things generally work a lot better if they both give feedback to each other.
You could try talking to him about this, not from a point of being critical of his behaviour, but from the point of saying that you want to make him feel good, and it's impossible for you to know what he likes and if he's enjoying things if he doesn't give you some hints.
You're so goddamn stupid. There are many guys that don't make a peep when they cum, but does that mean they aren't enjoying it? No. Some do make sounds, some don't. Get over it.
That's mean and uncalled for. They're not stupid for worrying about that, it's not an obvious question, especially considering it's the first time they've encountered someone like that. And they're considerate for thinking to ask this question at all.
It wasn't stupid. And even if it was, it wouldn't do anything to help the OP to call them stupid. The only purpose of it was to make yourself feel superior.
Past experiences have shown to me that there are loud and quiet orgasms from both male and female, but almost always some noticable physical reactions.
Doesn't mean they enjoyed it any less or more. Matter of fact a little moaning and some grunts may be preferred over some of the most vocal I've been with.
Screaming in your ear, cussing, calling the partner names(which is fine if you're into that, but if it's the first time they've used the language or terms, it can be a surprise). I've even lost my interest and started laughing in one case where the person was comically vocal.
So I guess be careful of what you ask for.
Of course, if you insist in just getting that vocal response, there are ways. Give his balls a good hard squeeze when you feel him coming or if you're giving him oral just bite a little when he cums. He'll get vocal!
but if you bite or something that will not make him feel good that will hurt him
Many, many years ago I was a naïve young sailor stationed in Scotland, and the common scuttlebutt amongst my fellow sailors who were out on the hunt every weekend was that Scottish girls were terrible at clawing a guy's back during sex.
It never happened to me; if it had, there would only have been one occasion when it was possible. I've always suspected that this is (or at least was) something that women from the lower strata of society picked up as being the "normal" - maybe even expected - behaviour for a woman during sex.
I havent given any nail holes or scratches but I have gotten them a few times.
Not sure why some do that, but they weren't lower class women.
Don't remember it happening for quite some time, so maybe there is something to the expectation theory. We were all young late teens, twenty something's at the time.
some guys don't make a sound, others can howl like wild animals. just depends on the guy, personally I'm pretty quiet when I cum, usually a grunt and some heavy breathing. don't take it personal if you are, some guys just aren't vocal
I don’t know about other guys but I certainly grunt and moan a lot and loud when I cum