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I have a new boyfriend And yes I am hygienic before sex. He just asks for a blowjob either during or after sex, but has never tried to eat me out (though maybe bc I have never asked). Is this normal for a guy to just want to fuck my vagina or have me suck him off instead him asking if he can eat me?
While he may not be the world's most considerate lover, you can't really blame him if you never asked. Not every woman is into that after all, maybe he'd love to go down on you but is afraid you'd think it's weird. Only one way to find out.
I'm sorry, dear heart, but the more I hear about this guy the more I think I could hate him.
kick his selfish ass to the kerb!!
Just get on top of him and force him into 69ing you. Tell him you only receive as good as you give. That'll motivate him.
I disagree. I have had a female partner that I was in love with. I absolutely loved to go down on her but she didn't like giving blow jobs - in fact she never gave one to me in our time together.
It wasn't because she was selfish or lazy - she just wasn't into it. I accepted that about her and the rest of our sex life was great. Would you call her selfish and lazy too?
There's almost nothing worse in sexual intimacy than someone – male or female – participating in a sexual act out of a sense of obligation and duty. It's always obvious that that is what's happening, and it's a vibe killer. Not to mention a great way to instill resentment in a relationship.
I count it as selfish if he isn't into, hasn't bothered to tell her about it but keeps asking for a blow job!
I really appreciate your response. And I think that's the case. Regardless, I still haven't asked as I am not sure if it's something I want as of yet. Also, I don't mind myself making him happy as top priority when I'm in bed as I'm quite submissive only during sex, and he is dominant.
So doesn't it still ruin your mood when she denied you a blowjob despite the other acts?
I think you should talk to him about it.
As to your question, no it didn't kill the mood. We talked about it the first time it happened. She said she didn't like it.
I accepted that it was off limits for her and just left that out of our sexual repertoire. Yet I always loved to go down on her, because first I loved her, and second I loved giving her pleasure and I enjoyed licking her pussy. We both had a very strong sex drive together (often 2-3 times a day) and our sex life was great and satisfying.
He should have had the respect to tell you he's not into it (if that happens to be the case) if he keeps asking for blow jobs, he owes you the respect to tell you he's not into doing it to you!
Sit on his face and make him eat your bald cunt and deep rim your poop chute until you cum , pee , fart , shit.
How old are both of you ?
I'll eat your pussy out i love hairy pussy
but i love the scent of horny pussy mmmmm
I'm age 48 and single white male
Yes recently I had sex with a married woman who is working in my office. When I sucked ger pussy and insert my tongue in her vagina she just cried in pleasure. She could not believe when I licked her aas hole, her armpits. She told me that her hubby always force her to give him bj and thn lift her skirt and fuck. She is now enjoying sex with me and I am eating her like a dog.