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My bf is so sensitive, when he say something cheesy and I didn't respond he will think that I don't love him, and whenever he's jealous he will think that someone better than him will love me, and bring up his past, saying the world hates him, self-pity. etc.
Talk to him about it and try to help him improve. Most men and women I knew that were like that wound up chasing away their partners with their negativity.
I don't think it is a problem for you. you can support him and get closer .. he will never leave you then.
Tell him that sort of behavior isn't attractive in a man. For his sake, he needs to learn that lesson sooner rather than later.
Nothing wrong with a sensitive man, but a super softie can get as annoying as any sensitive girl.
You can call it a double-standard if you want, but the reality is that guys can't confide in girls like girls can guys. Not without coming across as unattractive.
My advice to any guy isn't to bottle up all your problems, but to discuss them with friends instead of your girl.
Has he told you about his past? Maybe women in his past have been evil and nasty and his problems comes from that. It is normal though to not like it if people do not respond at all when you talk to them and ignore you. However, it seems he takes it a bit too far.
It sounds like he's insecure and not handling it well. He probably thinks he's being open and communicating his feelings, but in reality it's kind of manipulative that he says terrible things about himself whenever you don't give him the attention he wants. He's not necessarily doing it on purpose, but it's still an unfair position to put you in. I'd tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he says these self-deprecating things -- it's important to set boundaries or it's just going to get worse.
He lacks confidence and is afraid of losing you but he doesn't realise yet that he's only pushing you away faster by acting this way.
See if he will allow you to punch his balls, maybe his role is to serve you