Is it normal that my bf is scared of parenting my kids...

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Well, i have a good relationship and we have been together for a bit, but my guy is having the need to make a decision about us. He said I am the woman of his life . but (I have 2 young ,one with autism) kids of another marriage and he claims it is going to be too much for him to handle if we get married. The contact with my ex will be a til the kids wont be kids anymore,etc. But he also said he wont leave me because I am all he wants in life. Basically i just saw my relationship get to a dead end,cause he wont marry me, but wont leave me. I am just afraid he will consume all my time and effort than later on tell me it was good to know me. I just dont know...

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  • LovesToSpooge
    12 years ago | pl

    Why do you have to get married? If he is staying with you then just go with it. He can leave whether you're married or not. If you two get along and he gets along with the kids why try and fix what isn't broken?

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    • lady6sky
      12 years ago | pl

      because he is feeling pressure from his parents , who are jeovahs witnesses and their rteligon comdens sex out of wedlock. Basically , we dont have an option to move in together , because of that, so he feels puzzled and i just dont know what to think.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago | pl

    yep - its akward for me, Im in a similar situation

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