IIN that men shouldn't give all their care to their girlfriends

Lol, it's a grey-area question. If I say yes, it'll make me "pathetic" in her eyes, because then I have no aspirations and ambitions. But in truth it's a no and yes.

I love her, that's that. I practically worship her (she really is sexy and unique). See, she's pretty much my future wife in my eyes, but she isn't my boss, neither is she my life. Just my happiness.

I've ambitions, most revolving around our future together, but some solely for myself. Say, work, expanding my knowledge, for examples.

My girlfriend may mean a whole lot to me, but she never was my everything. Before I met her, I already had goals for myself. A dude should have a life outside the romance circle, but not indulge himself like he's single once he has a lady (other words: don't cheat and screw things up). So yeah.