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i am using this for over a year now and still haven't a single person whom i can call oh! I know this person, we have little bit understanding and spent sometime together! So anyone wanna be friend just raise the hand
It's because you talk about having pedophilic urges. I think people with those feelings need intensive psychiatric treatment, because such desires are completely immoral, and deeply wrong. I don't hate you, but I can't see myself having a genuine like for someone with those sort of feelings.
Fair enough but they are just thoughts, and thoughts are hard too control, i would never act on it cuz I don't want to hurt anyone, I wish I didn't have these bad thoughts either, and i understand if you don't like me for it, i dislike myself for it too.but thanks for letting me know why at least.
Have you ever considered getting help for those thoughts since you say you can't control them? I have to give you credit for knowing those thoughts are wrong. A lot of people with pedophilic desires get rude, defensive and entitled when people tell them it's wrong; I hate those people. At least you know it's wrong, which means there's hope for you.
What "help" would he possibly be able to get? Our sexual desires develop from a bunch of stimuli that we unconsciously register throughout our developing years. It's not like he chose to have those thoughts and he got addicted or something. I don't think that there is anything he can do aside from accepting that he has those urges (which he has) and then maintaining a lifestyle that is devoid of any actions related to those urges (which he also has done). Do you think a homosexual could ever get "help" for their desires? Some people think that they could get a good dose of counseling and religion and be cured of all homosexual urges.
People just get on here so they can make troll posts and the occasional IIN I eat cheerios with urine posts. Some of them appear to have made friends. It seems like most of them are somewhat hostile though. I don't blame anyone. Something about comment sections and chat rooms really bring out the negative qualities in people and amplify them.
My advice would be to look for friends who aren't in the digital world. It would be much more fulfilling. And the last thing you want to do is pursue friendships on facebook. It's been proven that facebook does nothing but make people feel more lonely and disconnected than they did before they signed up. Food for thought...