1) You happen to be incredibly well-adjusted apart from a huge hole where most people have empathy and concern for those they consider friends.
2) Your lack of empathy is symptomatic of your psychopathy, and the reason you belittle the whole concept of therapy and counselling is that you're intelligent enough to suspect that you're actually very fucked-up under the civilised veneer you present to the world, and you're terrified that a therapist would force you to acknowledge your pathology.
I remember talking to some older guys about therapy and hearing them talk about how younger generations have “gone soft” and how back in their father’s day the men would just suck it up and handle it on their own.
Come to pick up that most all of them were riddled with alcoholism and had nasty habits of violence or anger
PTSD is not something that was invented to excuse the psychological weakness of the modern generation. People who go through traumatic experiences have always been altered by those experiences. Throughout history, some of the men who came home from war were very different people to the guys who cheerfully marched off looking for glory.
Most people are capable of eventually coming to terms with traumatic events, but some people are left with life-altering psychological damage. Why some people are more susceptible to this than others isn't clear, but genes and the size of certain areas of the brain do seem to be risk factors.
I guess the generation the old guys were talking about were those who went through the Great Patriotic War. Given everything that happened in the Soviet Union during that period, I'm sure a huge number of people - both soldiers and civilians - were left damaged. Since the problem wasn't acknowledged and they weren't given any help in coming to terms with it, it's hardly surprising that some self-medicated with alcohol and/or were subject to outbursts of rage which they themselves didn't understand.
OP could be a narcissist, or sociopath, maybe he, or she is in denial of his, or her own feelings in an attempt to feel stronger. You know that old saying, "if you spot it you got it"? I think it's possible that OP is getting upset with these people, and their supposed over emotionality, because that's the thing that he, or she hates about him, or herself.
IIN that loads of people I know go to therapy
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1) You happen to be incredibly well-adjusted apart from a huge hole where most people have empathy and concern for those they consider friends.
2) Your lack of empathy is symptomatic of your psychopathy, and the reason you belittle the whole concept of therapy and counselling is that you're intelligent enough to suspect that you're actually very fucked-up under the civilised veneer you present to the world, and you're terrified that a therapist would force you to acknowledge your pathology.
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I remember talking to some older guys about therapy and hearing them talk about how younger generations have “gone soft” and how back in their father’s day the men would just suck it up and handle it on their own.
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PTSD is not something that was invented to excuse the psychological weakness of the modern generation. People who go through traumatic experiences have always been altered by those experiences. Throughout history, some of the men who came home from war were very different people to the guys who cheerfully marched off looking for glory.
Most people are capable of eventually coming to terms with traumatic events, but some people are left with life-altering psychological damage. Why some people are more susceptible to this than others isn't clear, but genes and the size of certain areas of the brain do seem to be risk factors.
I guess the generation the old guys were talking about were those who went through the Great Patriotic War. Given everything that happened in the Soviet Union during that period, I'm sure a huge number of people - both soldiers and civilians - were left damaged. Since the problem wasn't acknowledged and they weren't given any help in coming to terms with it, it's hardly surprising that some self-medicated with alcohol and/or were subject to outbursts of rage which they themselves didn't understand.
OP could be a narcissist, or sociopath, maybe he, or she is in denial of his, or her own feelings in an attempt to feel stronger. You know that old saying, "if you spot it you got it"? I think it's possible that OP is getting upset with these people, and their supposed over emotionality, because that's the thing that he, or she hates about him, or herself.