Is it normal that im lesbian and straight .. but i cant say im bi

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Well m a girl ...First when i was teen i had this feelings of "no i couldnt be a lesbian" .or " Not me " . Like being gay is somthing not normal or not gd to hear well mmmmmm im sexually straight though ... but my first love was a girl.
I used to tell myself .." m straight who like girls" xD still find this term is more suitable though :/ i dnt mind sex with girls acually i would love it girls attracts me. it fills my emotions like m more like sexual towards guys nd more emotional towards girls somehow . Sex is not my big thing with the being with girl is i can skipt that easly and engoy kissing huging and even touching the girl ..that satisfyed me alot nd it felts not like with a guy no its heaven.
For sex :With a girl i feel in heaven . with a guy i feel in hell haha both in gd way
I can feel the both with both .but as high level of feelings it is this way.
Hope that helps to get u to the point :/

So i feel i cant say m bi now because m human nd simply hv feelings ... m not lesbian not straight not shit ... m just watever i am with no definitions ? Plus i dnt realy feel like m any of "one full category "..
Is that normal to hate to say m Bi.. straight . Lesbian . waterver ?..

And why ppl need to tell wat category u r .. why they need to tell u wat u r . I am " miss nothing " do u mind that ?

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  • DolphinAngel
    7 years ago | pl

    1. Do mods do nothing these days? Such horrible grammar and spelling should be punished.

    2. People like labeling, because it seems easier to deal with people when knowing about them. Definitions give us a sweet sense of "control".

    3. You don't have to put a label on yourself, but from an objective point of view, you are bisexual according to definitions. I don't get why some people are so averse to labels.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago | pl

      You can call a sexuality definition a label, which sounds negative and can be confining to the person labelled, or it can be a description.

      I've averse to the former but not to the latter and in relation to bisexuality, I could say at one time I'm attracted to a woman or women right now, another time that right now I'm attracted to a man or men and other times to males and females equally.

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      • charli.m
        7 years ago | pl

        So you've given up claiming to be pansexual when you found out what it actually means?

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago | pl

    Wasn't this train wreck already in another topic here?

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  • kelliekelliekellie
    6 years ago | pl

    Women's sexuality is an enigma. Check out Meredith Chiver's studies. She revealed that all the girls she studied turned out to be sexually aroused by women having sex with other women. Yet the majority of these girls previously had identified themselves as being straight women. Does that mean all women are lesbians? Hell no! Bisexual, very possible.

    You gotta understand that female sexuality is highly different as male sexuality. Males are primarily attracted to genitalia per se whereas women need a pattern of erotic and sensual stimuli. So just because you are attracted to another woman, doesn't necessarily mean you are a lesbian. I'd say lesbians are much more "emotionally" and romantically connected to each other. If it's just for sex, you're at the very least bicurious, or maybe even straight, I can't recall all the parties I went to when I was seeing girls making out with other girls and yet they had boyfriends...

    Sooooo... don't bother. Don't label yourself. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter who you're going to have sex with, but rather who you're going to spend the rest of your life with. If you're having sexual encounters with girls, to me that's just an experiment. Yet if you fall in love with a girl and you can't help thinking of her, you're probably a lesbian.

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  • cutie_poo
    6 years ago | pl

    it's clear that you are bisexual, though you don't wish to be labelled as one. Is that normal? I guess so.

    Don't listen to these other people complaining about your grammar; to my eyes it was poetry. I hope you post some more

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