Is it normal that i write eulogies in my head for everyone in my life?

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I can't help it. I imagine myself giving a eulogy for someone in my family or close friends. The eulogy is sincere and comes from real feelings of love and/or respect. In my head I can see myself standing in front of the church full of mourners saying all the wonderful things that I think about that person. I usually don't let it go until I have the whole speech finished and sounding exactly the way I want it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    3 years ago

    Ummmmm.... i guess you mean well? Good intentions at least.

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  • Inkmaster
    3 years ago

    That's somehow both sweet and morbid at the same time.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    3 years ago

    Why do they specifically have to be eulogies? Why does the person have to be dead in order for you to say those things?

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    • congospruce
      3 years ago

      I have no idea. My brain does it automatically.

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      • SkullsNRoses
        3 years ago

        Perhaps most of the outpourings of emotion you have seen have been at funerals?

        At least I thought that way after only hearing emotional speeches at funerals myself. Until quite recently actually when I took a good picture of someone I would wonder if it would be good enough to be used as the cover for their funeral flyer. Now I try to think in terms of whether photos would be good for albums and if my funeral speeches could be modified to work in a birthday card for them.

        Basically what you’re doing is normal, but remember there are other times you can celebrate someone.

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