I had/ have the same mindset. But unlike u I have already done it. I had this mindset since I started having sex.
Its not worth it. Truly. Theres a good chance uve been with ur partner for a while and while the sex is ok.. its all too similar. And ur bored with it.
Find a way to spice it up. Faithfully.
While cheating sounds fun.. actually doing it isn't. Whether u like it or not, (if u have a conscience) there's the guilt factor. And it puts a big fluffy cloud over ur sun.
Just break up with the guy.
You can't have ur cake and eat it too.
i did it cause i didnt give a fuck. i caught my bf talkin to his ex on fb abt what they wanted to do to eachother behind my back. he'd been sneaky.. and i wanted to. so i contacted my ex and fucked the shit outta him. i felt great. for a while anyway.
and no i didnt get "found out". eventually i just told him.
"hey i fucked my ex. so dump me."
but he didnt. not sure why. i mean honestly. they say those who do it once will do it again. which i havent yet..
yea i know what you're thinkin "what a fucked up person."
lol well live my life
IIN that I would cheat if he couldn't find out
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I had/ have the same mindset. But unlike u I have already done it. I had this mindset since I started having sex.
Its not worth it. Truly. Theres a good chance uve been with ur partner for a while and while the sex is ok.. its all too similar. And ur bored with it.
Find a way to spice it up. Faithfully.
While cheating sounds fun.. actually doing it isn't. Whether u like it or not, (if u have a conscience) there's the guilt factor. And it puts a big fluffy cloud over ur sun.
Just break up with the guy.
You can't have ur cake and eat it too.
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Why did you do it? Did you get found out?
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i did it cause i didnt give a fuck. i caught my bf talkin to his ex on fb abt what they wanted to do to eachother behind my back. he'd been sneaky.. and i wanted to. so i contacted my ex and fucked the shit outta him. i felt great. for a while anyway.
and no i didnt get "found out". eventually i just told him.
"hey i fucked my ex. so dump me."
but he didnt. not sure why. i mean honestly. they say those who do it once will do it again. which i havent yet..
yea i know what you're thinkin "what a fucked up person."
lol well live my life