Is it normal that i won't be shocked if my bf decides to leave me?

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I admit that I'm pretty immature. I get mad at the little things, and it takes me a while to forgive him for a silly mistake he makes, no matter how much he apologizes and tries to cheer me up. Sometimes he even makes a fool out of himself. When we fight, he cries, and he says I hurt him too much, and when I tell him we're over, he hugs me and asks me not to leave him. I feel so guilty right now, I Know I'm a shitty girlfriend, I probably don't deserve him, and I really love him. I don't know why I act the way I do. That's why, someday, when he decides to leave my side, I won't be surprised and just be like "well, I expected this because I'm a worthless girlfriend" :( :( :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Suck his cock enough and he won't leave! Especially if you swallow!

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      There is some truth to this except eventually people need to get along for a relationship to last. It will extend the relationship but not indefinitely.

      If she continues to behave like an infant, even if he does too, something will eventually give.

      Personality and mental peace always win out.

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      Mean people aren't very good in the sack... meh.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    You're mentally abusing him, and created a cycle that revolves around you. Your boyfriend is caught in the cycle you've created, and may take years for him to break out of unless you do something unforgivable by his standards, or you leave him for real. Sadly, he won't leave.

    So... yeah.

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    • edwininthematrix
      6 years ago

      she needs to make him believe that he needs her and can never find anyone like her. as long as he feels emotionally dependent on her, she can even torture him and he will blame it all on himself and justify her actions by saying that he deserved it. she's got a toy that she can endlessly manipulate for her pleasure.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Do the right thing, end the relationship and start going to therapy, because it sounds like you are too messed up to be in a relationship. If you can't end the relationship then at least seek out professional help for your issues. If he breaks up with you, let him go, and wish him the best. Don't harass him, or beg him to take you back if he leaves you, because he has the God-given right to do what is best for him.

    Do the right thing here, because you know I'm right. He deserves better than the verbal and emotional abuse you give him! If you try to get physical with him I hope he calls the cops and presses charges. Go get professional help ASAP!

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