Is it normal that i watch porn n masturbate alot?
from past few months I've started watching porn and day by day the urge of watching porn and desire to have sex with someone Is increasing, what to do?
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what type of porn do you masturbate to and how long have you been doing it?
Based on your OP as it is you shouldn't masturbate but seek other ways to milk out the poison like getting laid but if you must masturbate limit it to twice a week.
That doesn't mean 8 times a day for 2 out of the 7 days, that means milking the poison only 2 times out of the 7 days. For example you can blow-a-load twice sunday but you'll have to wait almost an entire week to blow-a-load again, follow me? And no "borrowing" from the following week.
Another way to curve your masturbatory habit is is think of it as doing something wrong and "punish" yourself for doing it, for example 20 push-ups immediately after blowing your load or 10 pull ups on your pull up bar, got it BITCH?
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In my opinion it's ok to masturbate often. You're just satisfying your body's basic urges, similar to how you'd eat food if you were starving, or would take a shit if you needed to take a shit. You shouldn't go against your natural urges if they're harmless.
I've tried to quell my masturbation before. Didn't work out for me. Abstaining from masturbation for long periods of times makes me mentally unbalanced. Being horny makes me lose focus on what I'm doing by causing me to fantasize about sex, and sometimes makes me depressed by causing me to dwell on the fact I'm still a virgin. I'm usually in a much more productive mood after I've masturbated. If I bottle up my sexual urges all day, I'll be constantly on edge.
I've read from many sources that masturbation is a detrimental habit, but I've yet to see any compelling evidence to back it up.
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You're body has an urge to have SEX not have sex with yourself, you're a virgin because you masturbate so much and if you don't do something about it you'll remain a virgin and don't give me that bullshit it's similar to eating when you're starting that's a false analogy in this case because you won't die if you don't masturbate but you will if you don't take a shit.
What's happening with your brain and Pornography is when you masturbate that much you've wired your brain to accept visual stimuli while giving yourself a hand-job instead of actual SEX so that actual sex when you have it isn't rewarding because you've desensitized yourself.
Every time you blow-a-load masturbating you're shooting Testosterone out of your cock-head and believe me it's not good. You need a woman to have sex with and the only way you'll achieve that is to stop or limit your masturbation.
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I think it's unhealthy to form a dependency on something unobtainable to me. I'll always have my hand, but there's a very slim chance of me getting a girlfriend, so for convenience sake, I would much rather fuck my hand.
I have avoidant personality disorder and cannot make friends like a regular person can, let alone get a girlfriend. I've never even asked out a girl before. I've tried reading self help articles, but it's all bullshit and doesn't help me, and I'm already 19 years old, so I doubt it's something I'll grow out of. It's impossible for me to start a legitimate relationship, and I don't even know where I'd start in looking for a prostitute in my area, so I think it's totally justifiable that I masturbate frequently as an alternative to sex.
Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't see how ejaculating in your hand has a different effect on hormone levels than ejaculating in a pussy does.
I definitely understand some of what you're saying though. I think that's good advice for other people, just not me in particular.
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