Is it normal that i want to have and do a lot that girls do?

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I am a straight guy that knows he loves girls, but I really want / like a lot of what girls have and do such as clothing (Crop Tops, super skinny jeans high waist, revealing of body tops and outfits, and many more), I also love like their long hair and the styles of it and also hiding a lot of your face whilst looking really cute, I then also love being cute, kind, (more feminine behaviour) and how I act.
I have always found that I much prefer being friends with girls and I have been so so close with my mum like every guy I know has caused their family problems and stuff like a lad but I'm completely different, and I'm always really caring and thoughtful a lot like a girl. And I even recently tried piercing my ears (both lobes and helix) because I felt it would show this personality a bit more and look really cute and I could love it any more and I'm even debating growing my hair out long to my shoulders. But I really don't understand why Im so different and if I am normal to be like this and have these feelings and want to have a lot of stuff girls do and so forth ...? What should I do, should I embrace it and get high waist jeans even though their "women's clothing" and grow my hair out etc or should I just try and see if its just me being stupid, please help :(

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  • Makalon1931
    6 years ago | pl

    Made this account just to speak to you

    First of all I understand exactly what your going through and I feel your pain

    You are probably transgender, the term for what your feeling is "gender dysphoria" you should Google that as well as "transgender mtf"

    Its not something that is going to go away and will get worse, if you want to talk leave some way of contacting you we can talk more

    Also what age are you?

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  • cunt_eater
    6 years ago | pl

    I dont think you want everything girls have , like periods , cramps , painful child birth , PMS , menopause , having painful anal sex , giving men blow jobs and swallowing their children , wearing bras , etc.
    Need I go on ?
    Be thankful that all you have to deal with is a cock and balls dangling and swinging back and forth between your legs , there is no pain or discomfort in that.

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    • Cheet0
      6 years ago | pl

      But yes, there is pain when idiots choose to forcefully make contact with them...

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  • Soultie
    6 years ago | pl

    Nope. Your probably "the gay"

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  • kariann789
    6 years ago | pl

    Honestly honey I say be who you are and wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. If you haven't already done so, go to Walmart and pick out an outfit that you think is really cute, head over to the lingerie department and get a matching underwear set and one day or night when you're home alone go try everything out. If you feel better about yourself then honestly ask is this something you want to wear 24/7 or just for fun. If it's 24/7 then you can start looking into transgender therapy and come on over to our team. If it's just for fun then relax and enjoy whenever you want.

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  • mongolianokie
    6 years ago | pl

    societal gender constrictions have strong biases as to what one should where. I am not one to conform to the norm in most cases. I think that by trying to wear something that is traditionally male in other cultures like a kilt or a Samoan wrap maybe a way to dip your toe in the water so to speak and then see if you are ready to take the plunge.

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  • felixy
    6 years ago | pl

    You're the result of a boy grown up without a strong, positive, masculine presence. You're missing a father figure, and that, in turn, causes your behavior to be so feminine.

    You never had a man to grow into.

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  • Cheet0
    6 years ago | pl

    Don't listen to the other guy, you are you, and no one can force you to change unless you want to...

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    • CuteBoy_xx
      6 years ago | pl

      What should I do though because idk what people accept and don't, and its not exactly something I can just go out and do can I? but I feel weird / think about it a lot when I don't..

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      • kariann789
        6 years ago | pl

        Cute, take my advice, go to Walmart and buy a skirt, a cute sweater, a heeled boot and matching bra/panty set and a bottle of Nair for your legs unless you already shave and then try everything on when you are alone. From everything you are saying about how you feel I know that you will feel 100% better. From there you need to decide for yourself if taking hormones and living 24/7 as a woman is right for you or not. BTW if you want the full experience make sure that the bra is a D cup and use balloons full of water to fill out the cups.

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      • Cheet0
        6 years ago | pl

        Well, what you need is to decide what you want, and then go through with it no matter what anyone else may say to you about it. Try going someplace where you won't know anyone else dressed as you want, and just see how it feels to be out en femme. If you don't like it, you can return home and no harm done...

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  • Goku19
    6 years ago | pl

    You should not look like girl. Boys look cute in short hairs and wrist watch while Girls look cute in long hairs and ear rings.

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