Is it normal that i want to hang out with teachers outside of school

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Im a female student and I want to hang out with some of the female teachers that in attached to outside of school. I grew up without a mom and when I was around her I was abused in all the ways you can abuse a child even sexually. I used to cry about not having a mom and always wish and pray to have a mom thats all I ever wanted. I never got that parental love, care, or security. The last teacher I was attached to I told her about how I was attached to her and she pushed me away, put up all the walls she could, and wanted nothing to do with me. She made me feel like a weirdo and a crazy person. To this day a bunch of them have done this and said that its just a boundary issue. I was put into treatment for this.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    I wouldn't say crazy, but, sounds like you need a female role model. Maybe try to not be so clingy, just ask advice and friendship, not a substitute mom. My hot older sister was the school's dance team instructor/advisor, and a lot of the girls looked to her as a role model. Some would try dressing like her, doing their hair and long nails the same way, and basically trying to mirror her in every way. Those were the ones who creeped her out. The girls who'd take advice, maybe similar clothes but not try to be exactly like her, were the ones who benefitted most.

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  • gxdezlh
    6 years ago

    I might be mistaken but I think a teacher could get in trouble for having an intimate (even if it's completely platonic) relationship with a student. I am not 100% sure if that's true, though. So they might be worried about that.

    I totally understand why you would be attached to your teacher. I think it's completely normal for a young woman to like an older woman as a friend. You're not weird, but teachers are not the best option for being your friend.

    Try to make friendships with your classmates, instead.

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