Is it normal that i want my wife to also marry her lover
We're a married couple (12 years) who are too much in love, but due to my job, I have to be out for a considerable amount of time. So I encouraged my wife to take on a lover and gradually over 8 years they became quite close to each other. But whenever I'm back home, she stops all communications with him, and he knows that I"m back. Recently we had a straight threesome and it was simply marvelous for all three of us.
Now he suggested that he also wants her as his wife and bear his children, which I honestly found very arousing and doable and I have been after my wife to get married to him (yes I know.. cannot do it officially, but we'll find a way)