Ask Your Question today
I want my boyfriend to have complete control over me. I want him to force me to cook and clean for him and beat me if things aren’t up to his standards. I’m turned on by the thought of being with a manly man that could just kill me whenever he wanted to. I want a guy that will let me know my place as a woman.
An abusive man is not a manly man. He is just an insecure pussy who takes out his insecurity on his woman who he doesn't actually love. Women who love these types are no good anyway because they are only wasting their empathy on someone who doesn't actually deserve it when there are plenty of good men available. It's really no better than wanting to date a homeless crack head.
In the end you will get pregnant by him and have a child who he can also abuse. The woman often loves the abuser more then their own child who they selfishly brought into the world. Enabling him to abuse someone she was meant to protect as a useless parent who is no better than the abuser. So they are perfect for each other as they are both in fact pieces of shit. Just make sure to get sterilized first because you will never deserve a child and if that hurts your feelings you are even more pathetic because I often find women who put themselves in abusive situations cannot even handle a small constructive insult.
It is not abusive if the woman gives consent, some girls like it maybe even more than you think. Shame on you for shaming an actual popular group of people called Masochists.
Women are evolved to seek strong men, who know what to do, and what they want. That makes men sexy, confidence and charm, somewhat aggressive, but still caring and loving with their women.
However, I think your fantasy got a little or of hand. Try not to engage in it that much, and don't put too much expectation on the men you meet.
Tell your bf, though. I'm sure he'll be thrilled and will play out your fantasy with you.
It's called masochism, and in this particular case, there seems to be an underlying inferiority complex going on, as well as a remarkably low self-esteem. This often occurs as a result of either being abused as a child, or witnessing abuse and developing what's called Stockholm Syndrome, where one identifies and takes the side of the abuser. The sexualizing of pain inflicted on one's self (masochism) and that of being degraded (submissiveness) are not particularly uncommon, but wanting someone to beat, degrade, and possibly kill you goes well beyond standard masochism and submission, showing signs of a remarkably low sense of self-worth and suicidal tendencies. This is dangerous, and not only to you. If you were to have a child with someone like you described (a violent man-child with a temper who has no respect for you whatever, hereafter referred to by the clinical term sociopath,) this child will almost definitely be abused to at least the same degree as you are (physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually) if not worse. Other women, children, and animals will almost definitely see abuse from this same person as violent sociopaths are either unable or unwilling to control their violent tantrums. A violent sociopath will do all of the things you say you want (until it actually happens,) and a whole lot more things you don't want, and will not easily let you escape once you've realized just how bad it really is. It might be time for some therapy to learn how you can navigate through your sexual urges without endangering yourself and others.
Not normal, but if you want to literally slowly kill yourself or ruin your life then do it. No one cares, natural selection :3
Idk if this is normal ad Personly I think it's boring to have who can think for them self and alway have to cont on her man for every thought and action
Yeah I totally get it, it's not about being abused and beaten up every 5 minutes. It's about giving yourself to him completely just as women did in years gone by. It's about the security of knowing your place in the relationship and having your man in control. If he beats you because you burnt the dinner that's ok, because you will learn to do it better next time. If he decides he wants to have sex, or for you to give him a blow job, or whatever, you do it because you are his and you love him and your purpose in life is to please him. You want him to love you back and protect you from others and treat you well, but you want him to do that because he chooses to, because you try to please him, not because he has to. You don't actually want him to kill you but you want him to be man enough that he could if he chose to. I'm the same, I have my own mind and my own thoughts about things and I share my opinions with my husband. But we both know he will make the final decision about things and if I don't like it I will learn to live with it. My husband never cooks, cleans, does the laundry or anything else in the house, he says it's women's work but if I need help I can ask for it. I have never asked, I agree it should be my job and I work hard to keep the house to a high standard because that's what he wants.
Its wonderful to accept your submissive position in the man woman dynamic.if more women would stop fighting thier place in the natural order of life everyone would be so much happier.
It is completely Fine as long as you have a man who can be like that most of the time but not all of the time.
right and then you divorce him and make him give you 700 a month for the rest of his short life.
Don't need a reason or long explanation on why you might love this but it's simply called fucked up in the head.