Is it normal that i want my bf to cry ?

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My bf is not easy to cry just like other boys. But when he does (actually I only saw it once when he had a huge argument with his parents and they kinda disowned him) he makes a really cute and sexy crying not ugly crying like mine. There's no sound, only red face and wet eyes. And it's embarrassed to admit that I feel a little bit turned on by his tears. I mean his weak side must have some effect on me. So is it normal that I want to make him cry but I don't wanna hurt him? I love him a lot.

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  • Fall_leaves
    8 years ago | pl

    Poor boyfriend.

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  • omgcatz
    8 years ago | pl

    Are you the same person who wrote that you like seeing your boyfriend angry and thought it was "cute"?

    No, it's not normal, it's cruel. Normal people don't enjoy other people's sadness, they are naturally empathetic and get sad when they see others sad.

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    • emerald_blue
      8 years ago | pl

      how about boys like teasing girls in school ?

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      • omgcatz
        8 years ago | pl

        Not all boys do that, only delinquents do. I had mostly male friends growing up and none of my friends teased girls (or other boys). The male children in my house do show genuine empathy when they see someone sad and try to cheer them up - without coaxing from any adult. They were raised well and it shows. Children who aren't raised well turn into bullies.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    So you like the way he looks when he's hurt?
    :-/

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  • SidTheSloth
    8 years ago | pl

    Hell no my ex girlfriend was the same and she resorted to violence in the end. I'm pretty sure she was a sociopath.

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  • EnglishMike
    8 years ago | pl

    Sadist*

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  • EnglishMike
    8 years ago | pl

    You associate sorrow with sexual gratification, or at the very least pleasure. You seem like a masochist. Heaven forbid you have kids.

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  • 213
    8 years ago | pl

    You know i wish i know your boyfriend

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago | pl

    you sound like the perfect girlfriend

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