Is it normal that i treat someone in a really mean way & hate her for no reason?

I treat somebody in a mean way for no reason. The moment I saw her face, I just automatically felt deep, unbreakable resentment that made me want to murder that person.

Then I would daydream about murdering that specific person. I enjoy it.

I don't know why. This only ever happened to this 1 special person. Normally I'm not violent or anything at all, but the moment I see her, I just can't hold it; there's such a great desire to hurt her, to to torture her, and kill her. To watch her struggle in pain. I hate her. She is the 1 person whom I hate the most. For no reason.

Is It Normal?
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  • Does she look like someone else you hate? Perhaps she resembles someone from your past, or reminds you of them, somehow.

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    • I was thinking along similar lines: there will be a reason but OP hasn't found it yet and the likely one is that this person reminds OP of someone else from the past

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  • No reason, huh? Naw, I don't believe it. It might be a petty reason, or it might seem like an insignificant reason to others, but I'm sure there's a reason even if it's only somewhere in your subconscious mind.

    Also I think Libertybell makes an excellent point about how maybe this person reminds you of someone else you used to know.

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  • Get a life.

    Stop obsessing with others.

    Psycho

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  • relatable

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  • Jealousy

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    • Welp...I doubt if it's jealousy because there is absolutely nothing in her that I can possibly be jealous of.

      To be honest, she is sort of ignorant sometimes and she isn't really good at anything at all...and I hate that.

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      • 1) People may like her more than you

        2) She may be happier than you

        3) She may be prettier than you

        4) She seems to get more attention than you

        And there are many other reasons you could be jealous.

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        • TBH, I don't find those points you listed valid. I know numerous of people who dislike her, she's very unhappy because she failed 50% of her exams, she's in fact a little bit ugly, and she doesn't get much attention. Well, she has 4~5 friends in total, but she is never popular and is only normal in terms of attention capturing.

          You might be right. It MIGHT be jealousy. For an unknown reason. Currently I can't really find anything that I can possibly be jealous of. But perhaps subconsciously? I don't know.

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          • Man, everything you just said about her makes you seem like a total bitch. Maybe it’s the classic disney channel “Cool girl hates loser girl” Where you’re the cool girl and she’s the loser girl.

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            • um...I do get the best grades but I'm not exactly that popular/cool. I dunno. It doesn't matter that much anyways XD

              I don't hate her all the time. Just sometimes... all in a sudden...oh my

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  • "NO REASON" whatsoever?? Really?

    I hate to ask this, but can we get genders here?

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    • We're both female. How does that, um, affect anything?

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