Is it normal that i think guys don't care about their relationships....

Getting at the real heart of the issue, I think it has more to do with sexual/primal instinct. Women have a lot more at stake than men. Nine months is a long gestation period. And it only takes a man "one night" to do his part, biologically at least. Plus, people tend to let cultural memes and gender roles dominate their behavior. Most men probably feel like it's not masculine to want to be nurturing in a relationship with a woman or something. Every guy's got a little bit of an asshole in him too. We can't help that sometimes, it's the testosterone. But sometimes, dudes are just assholes, plain and simple.

It depends. We are wired differently, and we show our emotions in different ways. And some of us (self included) are romantic idiots.

Though...my man says that men care more than most woman would think *shrugs* I however am not a man ^So I cannot say

That's kind of sexist to think that way. Not all guys are like this.

I agree that SOME guys don't get very emotionally attached, but I disagree that any girl will go out with any guy who says she's beautiful. This may be true with SOME.

yeah its pretty normal because guys arent as emotionally attached to relationships which is why a lot of them cheat because they dont have those feelings that girls have so early in relationships. girls tend to fall deeply in love with any guy who tells them they are beautiful and guys know this and take advantage of it. guys treat girls like crap because they know the girl will run back for more and keep getting treated like crap because girls think it will be the end of the world if they break up.

Men on the other hand will try to see their woman but won't go out of their way all the time like a woman would. Not a bad thing just pointing out the difference.

Women will do anything to see their man if they can find a way to.

No its not normal yes many of us are sex obssesed jerks but some of us are hopeless romantics that care sometimes more than girls

I always cared about my relationships...what few i had...girls seem to show it better..from what feedback i got from one, i seem to not...so yeah...

right... the truth is girls talk to much and feel much less and guys talk less but feel too much. you tell me who really cares.

I'm exhibiting a lot more distrust towards men's true intentions in a serious relationship then I ever have before.

My boyfriend cares about our relationship more than i do

I agree but that's only because women are way more emotional than men. Doesn't mean some men don't really love their gf/wife because I'm sure some do, but women are way more I dunno what the word is.

I don't give a rats ass to be honest as long as she's good at blow jobs and cooking.

I Agree. Men are not as caring at all. But it's how it is ya know