I think they definitely can be, for the reasons you stated. Escorts are very expensive though, to the point of being exploitative. The traditional method of hooking up with a stranger though (going to a nightclub) is also very expensive and time-consuming, and you only have a chance of success rather than being guaranteed sex, so I can see why escorts would be preferable to that. However there are apps nowadays that you can use to hook up with someone, for free. So I'd say that would be the better option (admittedly I haven't tried them though so I don't know how good they are).
I wouldn't say there's no benefits to having a girlfriend over visiting an escort though. If you're looking for actual love, you'd need a girlfriend. With an escort, it's just a straight business transaction, no emotions involved. It'd still be nice don't get me wrong, but there's no deeper connection there like you could get with a girlfriend. There are guys who frequently visit the same escort and think that they have a special connection with her, but they're deluding themselves. The escort is letting them think that way so that they'll keep coming back, rather than visit a different escort, so she'll get more money. That's what she cares about. She may not be a horrible person, she may not tell the guy to go and jump off a bridge if he ran out of money, but she wouldn't be interested in him anymore. She is taking advantage of him though if she knows that he believes there's something special between them, and that's why he keeps squandering his money on her, so that is wrong.
IIN that I think escorts are better than girlfriends and wives?
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I think they definitely can be, for the reasons you stated. Escorts are very expensive though, to the point of being exploitative. The traditional method of hooking up with a stranger though (going to a nightclub) is also very expensive and time-consuming, and you only have a chance of success rather than being guaranteed sex, so I can see why escorts would be preferable to that. However there are apps nowadays that you can use to hook up with someone, for free. So I'd say that would be the better option (admittedly I haven't tried them though so I don't know how good they are).
I wouldn't say there's no benefits to having a girlfriend over visiting an escort though. If you're looking for actual love, you'd need a girlfriend. With an escort, it's just a straight business transaction, no emotions involved. It'd still be nice don't get me wrong, but there's no deeper connection there like you could get with a girlfriend. There are guys who frequently visit the same escort and think that they have a special connection with her, but they're deluding themselves. The escort is letting them think that way so that they'll keep coming back, rather than visit a different escort, so she'll get more money. That's what she cares about. She may not be a horrible person, she may not tell the guy to go and jump off a bridge if he ran out of money, but she wouldn't be interested in him anymore. She is taking advantage of him though if she knows that he believes there's something special between them, and that's why he keeps squandering his money on her, so that is wrong.