Is it normal that i think all men are gay?

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For some reason I think heterosexual men are secretly gay and just pretend they like women because of the pressures of society, family etc. Even when it appears obvious that a man really wants to be with a woman, or is married/ has a girlfriend, I still think he longs to be with a man sexually. I also think that men don't really enjoy sex with women? That it's not really that tight...But I haven't had any complaints personally...but I still think it. I also think they find a man's body attractive because of the muscle tone men have, and women tend to be soft and not so muscular.

I think it is common for straight men to experience homoerotic desires...because I think part of the reason men want to have big muscles and go the gym is because they have seen a muscular man's body that they admire and want to look like. Does any other woman feel like this? I *know* I am wrong and not all men are gay, but sometimes I can't help thinking it.

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ArmusWasTheFirstTroll

9 years ago | pl

I believe this is called projection.

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- Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
  
  9 years ago
  
  Pretty much.
  
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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Yes and no. I don't think all men are homosexual but I think the vast majority of men would indulge in homosexuality (bisexuality) when they wanted sexual pleasure where they wouldn't find women which may bring them more in to a bisexual life style as a whole and not just when there aren't any women.

It happened all the time through history, men would have sex with other men all the time, sometimes it would be seen as a superior form of sexuality.

I definetely think more men would experiment if men being gay was not so taboo.

I personally think men being bisexual would be the best thing for the male gender.

But yeah, I don't think most men would ever dream of it but I do think that if it was more acceptable and they were only around men for very, very long periods of time then they would experiment and would be bisexual in general.

Just my opinion, though.

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- Nokiot9
  
  9 years ago
  
  I think the stigma of being called a 'fag' keeps a lot of men from experimenting or following curiosities. Not ALL of them are curious though. Trust me.
  
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Darkoil

9 years ago

Just because you're a bumder doesn't mean everyone else is.

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derpyderp

9 years ago

I JUST woke up so this reply will probably be gibberish but your subject is interesting & caught my attention.
But no, personally I don't think you're right.

Regarding pressure, some of us (many I'm sure) have family that could care less who we're in bed or a relationship with, as long as we're happy.
Also homosexuals is quite accepted by society these days, in my part of the world at least...

Sex with a woman not tight enough?
You have the same option homosexuals have.
& I've never not enjoyed sex due to a girls bits.

Attraction to men:
I think you're right when you say that some go to gym as they see a nice guys body & want the same.
But it's a kind of envy not attraction.

Personally I love the fact that girls are "soft" & not muscular.
& tits make mad pillows!

I'm totally turned off by bodybuilder physique women or anything approaching it.
Body wise I like my girls girly..
If she has bigger muscles than me I'm out

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- slings_and_arrows
  
  9 years ago
  
  Thanks for the reply, it's nice to know that you like women to feel soft, and that sex is more than just the girl's bits...
  
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  - derpyderp
    
    9 years ago
    
    My head is fucking fried right now & I seriously cannot work out if you're being sarcastic or not?
    
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    - slings_and_arrows
      
      9 years ago
      
      Lol sorry, I am not being sarcastic. I was just saying it's nice to know that : ) I hope it wasn't me that fried your head. I did appreciate your answer because it means my femininity is attractive to men.
      
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      - derpyderp
        
        9 years ago
        
        Don't be sorry.
        I just have a lot on my mind & it's hard to read the tone of someone you don't know via text.
        & no it's not you that fried my head :)
        
        I can't speak for all men of course but yeah, a very feminine body is definitely sexually attractive to me personally.
        
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Cuntsiclestick

9 years ago

Not normal. Were you reading too many Shounen Ai, Yaoi, and Bara Mangas when you typed this, OP? In a lot of those stories, ALL the male characters are gay.

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- shuggy-chan
  
  9 years ago
  
  I was young and gullible and Itduz coerced me, now im sure i love cunts, it was just a phase =0
  
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  - Cuntsiclestick
    
    9 years ago
    
    No no. Go ahead and enjoy your yaoi romps. I'll be safely hidden in the bushes watching you dudes and taking photos to sell to my coworkers who eat this stuff up. I certainly won't enjoy watching it.
    *shifts eyes looking suspicious*
    
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    - shuggy-chan
      
      9 years ago
      
      Thats oky, we will be waiting under ur bed later. Lets make it weird >8}
      
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      - Cuntsiclestick
        
        9 years ago
        
        The victims I kidnapped and store under there will eat the flesh off your inner thighs, so yep, it'll definitely be a beautiful, delicious, crimson, wonderland of weirdness.
        
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        shuggy-chan
        
        9 years ago
        
        Every little boy grows up dreaming to be a zombie sex slave
        
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- GreyWulfen
  
  9 years ago
  
  What is a bara manga? I'm unsure if I want to google that.
  
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  - Cuntsiclestick
    
    9 years ago
    
    While Shounen Ai and Yaoi manga cater to females, Bara is a genre that caters to males(though there are females who read it). Bara manga usually features dudes who are more masculine looking with more muscle, body hair, or fat.
    
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davesumba

9 years ago

no where near normal. But it's kind of the same thinking I have. As a straight male, I think that women are so freaking beautiful, everything about them, and I don't see how any female would mind making out with such a beautiful specimen. But that is far from the case with men, so I can understand how it may be the case with some women.

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- slings_and_arrows
  
  9 years ago
  
  I am nowhere near normal?? The things I've read on here...And you think this is way off normal?
  
  I think men might also feel that beautiful women might not want men, as men are so rough and not usually pretty. It could be a strange worry that a man could also have I think, that as a man he is too ugly for a woman to want him.
  
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  - davesumba
    
    9 years ago
    
    It seems like a pretty outlandish thing to think. I had to google the question to see if others asked it, and they have, but more are all men secretly bi, not only into men.
    Best answer i found is: " As a general rule...men have a more animalistic approach to sex. It doesn't men can't be passionate, be in love, etc, etc...it just means that a lot of guys view sex as simply getting off. If you put a bunch of straight guys in a situation where no women are involved for an extended period of time, (like a navy submarine) there is a very good chance that some sex is gonna be happening. Not all of em...but guys who are comfortable in their straigthood might be ok with a quickie from another guy....some other guys might realize their deep-seeded homosexual desires that have been repressed. All depends on the person.
    
    Bottom line is...guys just wanna get off...if there isn't any women around...and the situation is right...a good percentage of straight guys might have a homosexual experience and not be necessarily gay."
    
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green_boogers

9 years ago

Still sounds like projection. Sort of denying that men want other women but they don't want you. Do you have a false sense of esteem?

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- slings_and_arrows
  
  9 years ago
  
  Interesting. This could be part of the problem...
  
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anti-hero

9 years ago

I'm gay for vagina.

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Unimportant

9 years ago

So true.

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caveman89

6 years ago

I was young, and needed male attention. I wanted friends, i wanted a big brother . While already having the curiosity(which i feel all males do) i was pushed into the scene of the curious bisexual lifestyle. This guy was attractive tall football player . Who'd you will never had to think twice was gay. Strangely enough i had never meet him.... it was a hook up from his friend.... but there more to this story......

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53739

8 years ago

It's more normal to think that all women are bisexual, which they are by the way.

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213

9 years ago

Yeah but unusual question

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213

9 years ago

Lol u crazy

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

Wouldn't the same also imply for women?

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- slings_and_arrows
  
  9 years ago
  
  I guess so, but women aren't my concern.
  
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GreyWulfen

9 years ago

First of all, yes, there are indeed men who are secretly gay or bisexual and just act heterosexual because of social pressure (there is even a word for that behavior, which I can not recall right now). And yes, I believe this number might be higher than most would expect. But all? No. There are men who are wholeheartedly 100% heterosexual.

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LizardSkin

9 years ago

So do you think all women are also gay? Your logic lends itself to believe that everyone secretly has homoerotic thoughts.

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- slings_and_arrows
  
  9 years ago
  
  But I don't care if women are gay! That isn't my concern. My concern is feeling certain that straight men really love sex with women. And yes I am sure we are all a bit bisexual, have homoerotic thoughts and have a fluid and complex sexuality. But my main worry is that men deep down desire to be with other men.
  
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  - LizardSkin
    
    9 years ago
    
    Why is this a concern? Maybe you should be concerned with yourself if you can't gain a man's interest, or easily lose it.
    
    I have no sexual desire for men.. So that alone disproves your outrageous theory. I suppose you're going to call me a liar?
    
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    - slings_and_arrows
      
      9 years ago
      
      No? I'm not going to call you a liar. And I don't see why you are getting so personal, it's just a feeling I have, it's never interfered with a romantic relationship. It's just a weird thought, no reason for you get like that.
      
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      - LizardSkin
        
        9 years ago
        
        Most people don't like to be labeled something they are not. It's offensive.
        
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slings_and_arrows

9 years ago

Nice pun ; )

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dickwashington

9 years ago

im gonna admit it im a little curious about sex with a man id like to try it at least once. but im not really attracted to mens faces or bodies but the penis its self i find interesting. i have been with quite a few girls and i do in fact enjoy sex with them i also very much find myself very attraced to girls faces and bodies ass and titties all day but like i said i give the right guy a shot

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slings_and_arrows

9 years ago

Thanks for your replies though, as I am new to this site, and it was the first weird thing I thought of to ask. I am sure I have some weirder/ more interesting things lurking in my mind...

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- CountessDouche
  
  9 years ago
  
  Hey! Welcome to the site. I love when people who are intelligent and well spoken stop by, but I totally thumbed up the bumber comment because I have deep seated maturity issues.
  
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  - charli.m
    
    9 years ago
    
    I thumbed you up for the last six words :)
    
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    - CountessDouche
      
      9 years ago
      
      :P
      
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  - slings_and_arrows
    
    9 years ago
    
    Hi, thank you and that's ok, I thought what he said was funny too : )
    
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slings_and_arrows

9 years ago

I am a girl by the way, so I don't see how it can be projection or how I can be a 'bumder.' And I am not really interested in manga. It seems you all think I am a gay man but I was serious about this question.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  9 years ago
  
  Don't mind them. Too many only hear what they wanna hear.
  
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thegypsysailor

9 years ago

Sounds to me like you can't get no satisfaction from any of the guys you've been with, so you blame them because they are "really" gay.
"the reason men want to have big muscles and go the gym is because they" MOST WANT TO ATTRACT WOMEN, dumbass.

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- slings_and_arrows
  
  9 years ago
  
  Lolll. My first day on here, and already called a dumbass. My question wasn't at all an attack on any man I've been with involved with, but interesting that you think that.
  
  I know they want to be attractive to women and thats why they go to the gym...I was trying to go to another level of the male psyche by saying that men admire other (muscular) men's bodies because they want to look like them so that they will be more attractive to women. Homoeroticism is not the same as homosexuality.
  
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