Is it normal that i think a girl is attracted to me when she smiles at me?

I am above average looking and well-dressed, but definitely not a stud. Sometimes I meet a cute girl for the first time and she gives me a big smile and a gaze that lingers a little longer than usual, and then turns away. Is that a subtle hint that she is attracted to me and that she wouldn't mind talking to me? Is it normal that I think this way or am I jumping to conclusions or being vane or wishful?

Is It Normal?
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  • You're so vain.
    You probably think this song is about you.

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  • It means she's plotting how to steal your money or make you kill yourself.

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  • Never confuse kindness with flirtation.

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  • Some girls may really be attracted to you, but most won't be.

    Girls smile a lot because people (not just men) treat them better if they do. A smile does not automatically equal attraction.

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  • I think it means they're not intimidated

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  • yes i think she is attracted, the smile and lingering look says its so

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  • All that hate because he said 'above average looking'. LOL. Dude, you won't know if you don't ask her. Usually what you feel is exactly as it is. If the feeling is that she likes you a bit, she likes you a bit and it could go either way if you talk to her. Wear cologne

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  • Your so vain you probably think this song is about you....don't you ?
    (Janet Jackson)

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  • Well, is she "eye-fucking" you, or is she looking at you like "Why is that creepy guy always staring at me?"

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  • so many reasons why a girl smiles....
    so many!
    can you read my mind?
    no, no, I don't want you. =P

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  • wooow.. "above average looking" wtf does that even mean? and like everyone else has said, you would KNOW if she is interested in you. an innocent smile sin't meant to put out that vibe. c'mon

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  • I think you're dreaming. Want to know how many people I smile at on a daily basis, yet I would never consider dating any of them. Some people are just nice and us gals like to smile for the most part. I'm sure some of them think you're cute, so don't rule that out. It's all body language. Look it up if you're interested.

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  • U should sense an energy of attraction from her you'll know if she's interested nothing wrong w playing and lookin back :)

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