As someone who used to be way too much of a people pleaser who cared way too much about what others thought of me, you'll definitely want to break yourself of this. You will get taken advantage of and walked on if you don't, and will attract controlling and using personalities who like the fact that you'll just do whatever pleases them. You'll also miss out on a lot of what you want trying to please or fit in with others. Life is too short, so make your own decisions based on what is best for you! There will always be people who disapprove of you or can't relate to you, no matter what you do. If someone thinks you're weird for trying something new that is completely harmless, that is their problem.
IIN that I tend to please whoever is in front of me?
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As someone who used to be way too much of a people pleaser who cared way too much about what others thought of me, you'll definitely want to break yourself of this. You will get taken advantage of and walked on if you don't, and will attract controlling and using personalities who like the fact that you'll just do whatever pleases them. You'll also miss out on a lot of what you want trying to please or fit in with others. Life is too short, so make your own decisions based on what is best for you! There will always be people who disapprove of you or can't relate to you, no matter what you do. If someone thinks you're weird for trying something new that is completely harmless, that is their problem.