IIN that I still care about my abusive ex?

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  • Think of it more in the long run. Have you spoken to anyone outside of iin? Maybe someone who knows her more personally than total strangers can tell whether or not she's suicidal because of her life or some other reason.
    My theory is that she is doing it because she wants to be needed. So I'm gonna have to guess there's someone else besides you who makes her feel like she's not. Is she close to her family? Does she have many close friends? And past bad experiences with them?
    If not, I dating this once guy who literally told me that he was alive because of me. That he would have died way before had I not started dating him...but he was still "suicidal". I no longer believe he actually was actually suicidal, because I've learned to tell the difference between depression, being suicidal and just having a problem. My ex...he just had a problem.
    I realized too late that he had family issues and issues with his past school. Had I known they would have that kind of change to him, I would've never said yes to dating him.

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