Is it normal that i sometimes question my motives when i tell my gf that i love her?

88% Normal
5 Comments

Don't get me wrong; I really love my girlfriend, I wish to grow old with her and make her happy. Also, she is the first girl I decided to go all-in for. Sometimes when we hang out, I do feel like I'm not enough for her, but that's something I've come to terms with: I leave that up to her.
However, if I'm feeling "in the mood" or tell her that I love her, sometimes a thought passes through my mind, making me wonder: am I only in it for the sex/her appearance? I definitely think I'm not, but the fact I sometimes wonder about that worries me. What if I'm just tricking myself, you know?. Just wondering if it's normal to have those thoughts.

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago | pl

    You seem like an overthinker. If you love her then you love her, why think about it so much.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
      -
    • Hide
      2 years ago | pl

      Heh, I do hear that a lot actually, that I seem the type.
      Maybe you're right :)

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      Report
      1
      1
  • Grunewald
    2 years ago | pl

    Imposter syndrome?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago | pl

    Almost sounds like a symptom of low testosterone or something. Those are women's thoughts.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    -3
    -3