Ignore the people who quick to judge & too lazy to read: the affair CAME AFTER the husband's rejection of you.
I agree: you have been put in an impossible position by your husband. He is the CHEATER - having cheated you of a sex life & unilaterally decided this will be a sexless marriage.
What nerve. This is totally unfair to you.
You must take charge. Send him to his Dr to rule out anything medical. If not medical, its time to confront (going for marriage counseling may help). Anyway, its time for him to shit or get off the pot.
Denial of sex can be used as a weapon about other issues. Who knows? Find out just wtf his problem is that he is resorting to bullying you sexually.
Once you have done this, and if there is no change, your options are to leave it, or live with it. Either way and whatever you do to cope try to have a clear conscious. You've tried.
I agree with Randomjelly about just leaving especially if you are young, have no children etc. as newly weds. But I disagree with her in faulting you for finding ways to look after your sexual needs if you choose to stay.
IIN that I resent my husband because he doesn't have sex with me?
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Ignore the people who quick to judge & too lazy to read: the affair CAME AFTER the husband's rejection of you.
I agree: you have been put in an impossible position by your husband. He is the CHEATER - having cheated you of a sex life & unilaterally decided this will be a sexless marriage.
What nerve. This is totally unfair to you.
You must take charge. Send him to his Dr to rule out anything medical. If not medical, its time to confront (going for marriage counseling may help). Anyway, its time for him to shit or get off the pot.
Denial of sex can be used as a weapon about other issues. Who knows? Find out just wtf his problem is that he is resorting to bullying you sexually.
Once you have done this, and if there is no change, your options are to leave it, or live with it. Either way and whatever you do to cope try to have a clear conscious. You've tried.
I agree with Randomjelly about just leaving especially if you are young, have no children etc. as newly weds. But I disagree with her in faulting you for finding ways to look after your sexual needs if you choose to stay.