I have been dealing with the same issue. I completely feel your pain.And it's obvious some people just skimmed through your post instead of reading what order everything happened! My boyfriend and I of 7 years have never been on the same page sexually. He likes to bicker & debate everything which causes a lot of tension not the kind that results in make up sex either! We both had affairs and separated for a year, stupidly I missed everything else about him and we got back together, he has no interest in sex with me,I've accused him of cheating and being gay. he goes to sleep on couch every night and we may have sex once every 3-4 MONTHs! (And it's nothing memorable) (almost not worth it) I've had an amazing sex life my whole past so I KNOW IT'S NOT ME! he proposed for the 2nd time last Feb and I accepted in hopes my saying yes would change things for him, but IT HAS NOT! I've tried talking,begging,crying,and refusing to set a wedding date for a sexless marriage! He's where my problem differs....we went to the Bahamas and I finally got my sex TWICE in 1 month!!! NOW IM 4 months pregnant with a man who has sex with me 3 times A YEAR! He hasn't touched me once and I'm so hurt, lonely and angry I don't know what to do.
IIN that I resent my husband because he doesn't have sex with me?
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I have been dealing with the same issue. I completely feel your pain.And it's obvious some people just skimmed through your post instead of reading what order everything happened! My boyfriend and I of 7 years have never been on the same page sexually. He likes to bicker & debate everything which causes a lot of tension not the kind that results in make up sex either! We both had affairs and separated for a year, stupidly I missed everything else about him and we got back together, he has no interest in sex with me,I've accused him of cheating and being gay. he goes to sleep on couch every night and we may have sex once every 3-4 MONTHs! (And it's nothing memorable) (almost not worth it) I've had an amazing sex life my whole past so I KNOW IT'S NOT ME! he proposed for the 2nd time last Feb and I accepted in hopes my saying yes would change things for him, but IT HAS NOT! I've tried talking,begging,crying,and refusing to set a wedding date for a sexless marriage! He's where my problem differs....we went to the Bahamas and I finally got my sex TWICE in 1 month!!! NOW IM 4 months pregnant with a man who has sex with me 3 times A YEAR! He hasn't touched me once and I'm so hurt, lonely and angry I don't know what to do.