Is it normal that i really want sex, but i want to be a virgin until marriage?

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I keep telling myself that I want to be a virgin until marrage. My boyfriend says that too. We both dont want sex until then. But then almost every night I give him a hand job and he fingers me. I really just want sex now. But then I know I should wait. What should I do?

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  • darkprince
    12 years ago | pl

    if u have a boyfriend.. then the temptation and oppurtunity will always be there.. i suggest u tell him u dont want to date.. get married.. if ur ready

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  • darnitjoan
    12 years ago | pl

    and thats why christians get married so young.....they're gagging for a boning!

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  • KeyboardSolo
    12 years ago | pl

    I say just go for it. Saving sex until marriage is just a bad idea. The sex drive is stronger than the idealogical one. If you keep it up you're going to end up rushing to marry the first guy who will agree to marry you just to have sex. I imagine there have been quite a few ill-advised and inevitably failed marriages for this reason.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Virginity is overrated.

    It isn't even really a thing. It's a not-thing. Being defined by what you haven't done, that you want to do and what almost everybody does. A thing that the more you do it the more you like it and the better you get at it.

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  • twenkie69
    12 years ago | pl

    Sex till marriage is a long wait.
    I think you guys should just do it because later on in the future your going to regret not doing it.
    It the best thing to do!

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