Iin, that i perfer to masturbate by myself instead of with my bf?

I'm 19 years old, and my boyfriend is in the army. We have sexy time on skype a lot but sometimes i will avoid trying to have sexy time on skype and just do it by myself after or before and hide it. i'm not that embarressed to masturbate infront of my boyfriend.. I know he is very attractive but sometimes i dont feel attracted to anyone but can still tell a good looking person from an ugly one.. but other times i feel like im more attracted to girls and then sometimes im like ick im definitely way more attracted to guys.. does anyone else ever get like this? i can go from being attracted to men like normal.. (i used to be always boy crazy) to women to both to no one at all... IIN?

Is It Normal?
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  • Yes totally normal masturbation time is you time.

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  • It is normal to just want to have space sometime. It is also normal to just feel like being around those that you care about. Don't ever get the idea that there will be someone that you will want to be around all of the time or even like all the time.

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  • Well... if you don't want to masturbate on video chat with him that's fine.

    However if you're not even attracted to him at times, it's time to consider whether or not you're in the relationship you want.

    He deserves a partner who wants HIM as he is. And if you're not sure... you're not doing him any favors by tying him to you while you try to figure it out.

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