Is it normal that i only love my wife?

I don't love my mother, siblings, or anyone else. I loved my grandmother but she's gone now. I don't have kids.

I like animals, especially cats, and have no desire to harm anyone or anything, so I don't think I'm a psychopath, though it does run in my family (mother and brother are both diagnosed with psychopathy).

I truly don't understand why it is that I only can find it in myself to love only one person. It probably sounds cold, but if anyone else in my family passed away, I don't care. I'd doesn't bother me in the least. I don't know why I'm so unattached. Please let me know what you think.

Is It Normal?
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  • How do you know how it will affect you when your parents die? It may affect you greatly especially when they've been gone for some time.

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    • My father is already dead, along with a brother. I didn't care and didn't go to their funerals.

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      • You shouldnt have missed their funeral thats just disrespectful

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        • Yes it is. But we weren't close. I don't think they ever cared about me at all. I didn't come from a family that hugged and said nice things to each other. We all just went our separate ways when we came of age.

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          • Does anyone come from those families? Thats just in the movies. My dad punched me in the face often and they threw me out when I was 17. You cant only think about yourself though. You should have been there for your family.

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            • Yes they do. My wife had a great father who loved her and showed her that constantly. People do have good families. You and I are the oddballs

              After meeting my family for the first time I asked my wife what she thought of them as we got into the truck to leave. She said "How the hell did you turn out so normal??!!?!?".

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  • You love someone whom it's right and appropriate to love! That is wonderful. Treasure her. I prayed for divine help to love my parents and it's working, albeit slowly...

    Of course, you do you.

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