My friend Steve was 30 years old and he dated an 18 year old and they dated for 3 years. Aside from the minor usual inconveniences of not being able to take her to certain places like Bars etc, things were great between the two of them.
Except ONE thing... He fell in love with her, and wanted to Marry her, and she wanted to break away and experience dating other men. She broke his heart. MOST not all older men are thinking of serious commitment, so be aware of that concept.
Then there are Men like me,( I'm 33) my age limit is 18 but I prefer to be with someone at least 21 years of age or older. I got over a long term failed relationship and right now I am out to have fun and not looking for a serious commitment. If an 18 year old throws herself at me, hey why not.
It's completely normal to find older men attractive, but you must be straight forward and about your intentions first. It will spare not only you the unnecessary BS, but it will also spare him the heartache.
IIN that I'm only attracted to men at least 20 years older than me?
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My friend Steve was 30 years old and he dated an 18 year old and they dated for 3 years. Aside from the minor usual inconveniences of not being able to take her to certain places like Bars etc, things were great between the two of them.
Except ONE thing... He fell in love with her, and wanted to Marry her, and she wanted to break away and experience dating other men. She broke his heart. MOST not all older men are thinking of serious commitment, so be aware of that concept.
Then there are Men like me,( I'm 33) my age limit is 18 but I prefer to be with someone at least 21 years of age or older. I got over a long term failed relationship and right now I am out to have fun and not looking for a serious commitment. If an 18 year old throws herself at me, hey why not.
It's completely normal to find older men attractive, but you must be straight forward and about your intentions first. It will spare not only you the unnecessary BS, but it will also spare him the heartache.