I can relate to that, it took me a great while (years!) to develop general social confidence, then being more secure with the idea of sex, then growing physical intimacy till being comfortable with another body, and only then sex in fact happened - lost my virginity at 24. My advice is challenge yourself little by little, a social event, a course, a sport, a party, sooner or later you'll find someone who talks to your interests and taste and eroticism, then you'll get a chance to improve your abilities. Just try not antecipate too much, let things happen.
IIN that i'm not sexually active at 21
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I can relate to that, it took me a great while (years!) to develop general social confidence, then being more secure with the idea of sex, then growing physical intimacy till being comfortable with another body, and only then sex in fact happened - lost my virginity at 24. My advice is challenge yourself little by little, a social event, a course, a sport, a party, sooner or later you'll find someone who talks to your interests and taste and eroticism, then you'll get a chance to improve your abilities. Just try not antecipate too much, let things happen.