Is it normal that i'm horny but my husband can go months w/o sex?

Im always waiting for my husband to want sex.I love him with all my heart and he was my first. Ive been with him since I was 15, im now 43. I find it abnormal for him to only want it when he has the desire and rejects my advances. He makes up excuses and disregards my desires by telling me to masturbate. I want all the stuff that comes with having sex with a partner. He can go weeks and months without sex. Im getting tired of waiting for my mans touch. Should I wait for him through the times his sex shop is closed or should I just go out and cheat. I want to be touched by a man..

Is It Normal?
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  • If there is nothing wrong with him and he is simply "making up excuses" not to have sex something is wrong with that. Maybe he is cheating on you already and is having an affair and that's why you can't get him to be intimate with you because he feels guilty. You shouldn't cheat, but you should just talk to him about it and if things don't change, you should leave the relationship.

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  • Sorry honey, your dog is mounting another bitch.

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  • Doesn't cheating boost one's sex drive. I would think that, if he was cheating, she would be getting some to.

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  • he could be cheating ?

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  • Besides cheating, you should dump him. Not that I recommend either course of action but cheating isn't right with me.

    I just read a post about purple ninja monkeys; never let go of a branch until they hold another.

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  • If he's older than you are, or the same age, perhaps its time to talk to his doctor about some help. Men are different than women, they usually peak around 18, and steadily decline after that. Women usually don't have a sexual peak, and generally get hornier with age. Cialis might be a better choice than viagra for him.

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