Is it normal that i'm hiding my foot fetish from my girlfriend?

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I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 6 months now, and I am really worried about telling her about my foot fetish. We are compatible in every way and I really believe that I could marry this girl, except for the fact that she has mentioned in conversation before that she thinks foot fetishes are weird and gross, and has even gone as far as to call it her "anti-fetish". I don't wan't to scare her off or have her think I'm a creepy weirdo, but I also don't think I can carry on keeping such a big part of myself from her and not be able to indulge in the only thing that truly gives me sexual pleasure. She likes me to give her foot massages, but she really doesn't like it when I've kissed her feet playfully, and she really wouldn't like it if I sucked her toes, which is what I want to do more than anything. Can we carry on this way even though our relationship is damn near perfect in every other respect? Or is sexual incompatibility enough to destroy a relationship?

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  • FlameDragoon
    8 years ago

    you should just tell her it's the most common and normal fetish out there, it's not like you're into scat.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    She should understand if she really loves you.

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    She's anti fetish? That wouldn't work for me. Anyways, next time you guys are getting intimate just look at her and say scoobiedaboop and start sucking those toes and see what happens.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    I don't think it's right for you to hide it especially for being one of the more normal fetishes. You should tell her.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    There is a reason its called a fetish mate.What excites you makes someone else puke etc.Unfortunately for u the one thing u like is the one thing ur gf hates.The qn now becomes what cant u live without....the girl or the fetish.

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  • philgill11
    6 years ago

    Tell her in a situation where you are going to tell each other sexual secrets. You would be surprised at how many women have their own weird sexual fantasies. Many are with other women, and they aren't even gay. It's a woman thing.

    If the woman really loves you she will want to make you happy and that includes satisfying your foot fetish. If she doesn't want to do that for you there is a good chance she is a selfish bitch and you want nothing to do with that.

    Don't be ashamed, probably 5% of all guys love feet in a sexual way and likely 50% of guys check out a woman's feet. Like a foot guy who checks out a nice ass or breasts even though it isn't their trigger - these guys check out pretty feet as well.

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  • flamer180
    8 years ago

    Try to convert her into liking feet.

    She says she doesnt like it, but there are ways my boy to convert her. Very sneaky ways...
    XD

    But seriously, with enough effort, Im sure you could get her to like feet ;D
    It's something I love too!~

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    Sukamatose..sukamatose..sukamatose..sukamatose..

    Sorry, it's something I used to say when I was young and stoned. Am I saying "suck on mah toes" or "so comatose"?...

    Anyway, there are *some* things that I'm grossed out by but if I had a partner who admitted to liking said thing I would likely become more accepting of it...but not before being all immature about it and probably picking on him a bit.

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    • flamer180
      8 years ago

      And are you grossed out by toes?

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