Is it normal that i'm gay and turned on by things simply because they're gross?
I know that gay men are famous for sticking it in the you-know-where, but other than that, it seems like they're generally more likely to be "prissy" than straight men.
I, on the other hand, am turned on by things simply because they're gross, ugly, or awkward. I'm also a little turned off by people who aren't at least a little gross. Like, I don't go for guys who smell like cologne, shave, and have a six-pack. I like guys who smell bad, have a high BMI, and are otherwise gritty and real. I like sex to be the opposite of suave or smooth. I do love big muscles, but I need them to be covered in hair and fat.
Also, I am extremely turned on by bare feet, to the point that I barely cared about penises until my mid-20s. Feet were like genitals to me, I loved men's feet and was (still am) vaguely horrified by the thought of a woman's. And armpit odor is one of my favorite things in the world, in a perfect world my SO wouldn't own deodorant, but might shower occasionally just so I don't catch a disease or something.
Just how weird is this? And how do I get my SO to be...more disgusting?