Is it normal that i'm gay and turned on by things simply because they're gross?

I know that gay men are famous for sticking it in the you-know-where, but other than that, it seems like they're generally more likely to be "prissy" than straight men.

I, on the other hand, am turned on by things simply because they're gross, ugly, or awkward. I'm also a little turned off by people who aren't at least a little gross. Like, I don't go for guys who smell like cologne, shave, and have a six-pack. I like guys who smell bad, have a high BMI, and are otherwise gritty and real. I like sex to be the opposite of suave or smooth. I do love big muscles, but I need them to be covered in hair and fat.

Also, I am extremely turned on by bare feet, to the point that I barely cared about penises until my mid-20s. Feet were like genitals to me, I loved men's feet and was (still am) vaguely horrified by the thought of a woman's. And armpit odor is one of my favorite things in the world, in a perfect world my SO wouldn't own deodorant, but might shower occasionally just so I don't catch a disease or something.

Just how weird is this? And how do I get my SO to be...more disgusting?

Is It Normal?
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  • Sounds like kind of a meta-fetish to me. I do have to admit that I am more interested in people who have unusual/weird fetishes, even if I do not share them.

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  • I read the first line of your post and then I bailed. You've been reported. Bye.

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    • Reported for what? Your feelings getting hurt? lol

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      • Yeah, if you can have a screen name like that, I can say "poop."

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        • yea honestly who cares what people say lol

          some people these days lol

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      • This hits a little too close to home for poor ol' gypsy boy up there. He keeps claiming to be some kind of IIN hero, reporting "trolls". he's on about his 5th account now.

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        • your account name XD hahaha

          lolol why you think he's the gypsy guy?

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          • Showed up around the same time gypsy got pwnd, always says how he misses the gypsy. Think of this. He admitted that I'm right about his other accounts - which never existed until thegypsysailor was deleted. so how the fuck would he even know who thegypsysailor was?

            He writes just like him too - same lame "jokes", same disgustingly pathetic personality, still bitches about people being "politically incorrect" while being racist and sexist himself, which is his attempt to copy the trolls so he can keep getting the attention he so desperately desires.

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            • are you sure his accounts didnt exist before gypsy was banned?

              n lol i dont know about his personality and all that, but yea it could definately be him

              also theres this:
              " I clashed with gypsysailor several times. Am not him. May he rest in peace."

              he says "may he rest in peace" like he's praising himself lol
              definately could be trashcanman. im suspcious now, but still dont really care lol

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        • Fuck you. 4th account. And I am a hero for destroying trolls. I clashed with gypsysailor several times. Am not him. May he rest in peace. And your user name is too long and quite boring. Finally: suck my cock.

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    • Umm, this is the sex section...I think you're an asshole (pun intended!) for reporting me, but I'll edit it just in case it's offensive. Because, you know, I'm actually asking a serious question.

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      • Relax "prissy" I was only fucking with you. Love the attention I got from those other assholes though. :-D And even though I was recently someone else you all loved and cherished on this site I am not the gypsysailor. Honest Injun.

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