That's unfortunate. Maybe it's the way you expect head to be performed rather than the act itself - a lot of guys watch porn and basically wanna face fuck you, I love giving head but that is nottt the way to do it and it's extremely unpleasant for the girl. I enjoy licking, sucking, teasing, and generally being more sensual, then you deepthroat just for like the last minute or so and the guy cums so hard I've literally made my boyfriend's knees buckle and his face go numb. Maybe you can ask her to just play around down there at her own speed, tell her not to worry about making you cum but just to enjoy feeling you in her mouth (and obviously, wash, and underneath the foreskin too).
The fact she said she finds it degrading does make me think this is a face-fucking issue so hopefully this way she can enjoy teasing you rather than worrying that you're suddenly gonna try and ram her throat or cum down it (not blaming you, I know it's hard not to get carried away in the moment). Over time she will build confidence and maybe let you finish in her mouth, you just have to show some restraint an if that means finishing off in her hand for a while then do it, at least you'll hopefully get to experience the pleasure of her mouth on you more and over time maybe you'll end up exactly where you want - with a girlfriend who gives awesome blowjobs and is proud and excited to do so!
IIN that I'm depressed because my gf does not enjoy sucking my dick?
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That's unfortunate. Maybe it's the way you expect head to be performed rather than the act itself - a lot of guys watch porn and basically wanna face fuck you, I love giving head but that is nottt the way to do it and it's extremely unpleasant for the girl. I enjoy licking, sucking, teasing, and generally being more sensual, then you deepthroat just for like the last minute or so and the guy cums so hard I've literally made my boyfriend's knees buckle and his face go numb. Maybe you can ask her to just play around down there at her own speed, tell her not to worry about making you cum but just to enjoy feeling you in her mouth (and obviously, wash, and underneath the foreskin too).
The fact she said she finds it degrading does make me think this is a face-fucking issue so hopefully this way she can enjoy teasing you rather than worrying that you're suddenly gonna try and ram her throat or cum down it (not blaming you, I know it's hard not to get carried away in the moment). Over time she will build confidence and maybe let you finish in her mouth, you just have to show some restraint an if that means finishing off in her hand for a while then do it, at least you'll hopefully get to experience the pleasure of her mouth on you more and over time maybe you'll end up exactly where you want - with a girlfriend who gives awesome blowjobs and is proud and excited to do so!