Is it normal that i'm definitely going to get my self drunk before doing it?

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21 female here and not yet lost my v plates. I'm definitely considering at least getting typsy before having sex for the first time! I'm just super nervous and scared and the only way to relax is to be intoxicated. IIN?

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago | pl

    Your virgin is worthless, get rid of it and enjoy your life before you settle down and get married.

    getting married to the guy who breaks your virgin is like seeing a car in a magazine and then buying it online without ever having taken it for a test drive, it might not have a engine in, then you will truly be fucked!

    test drive a few before deciding, marriage is forever so make sure that your intended partner has a engine and knows how to maintain it and rev it up for you!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Thanks for this lol love the analogy ☺ I think its good idea to test drive but I don't intend on ever getting married haha .

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      • sexysonofsam
        8 years ago | pl

        Now that is a wise thing to do! Stay single and mingle with whom ever you please whenever you please!

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago | pl

    Why don't you just put some novocaine on your v-hole?

    Virginity loss is a bit overrated so do it however you want, just try not to overthink it. Drunk sex can be fun but seems like it's better after you become a little more experienced.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    Save yourself for someone you love instead of seeking to get inebriated, and throw yourself away with just any damn body.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      I rarely develop feelings but I wouldn't do it with a random. I'd seek a guy I like.

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    • thegypsysailor
      8 years ago | pl

      You don't really believe that, do you?
      Wouldn't the freedom from the constraints of the virgin myth vastly overwhelm the importance of 'losing it' to someone you love?

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  • wendigo
    8 years ago | pl

    Do NOT have sex while you're drunk! Especially not for the first time. A first time is special: make it with someone you know & respect & like & make sure that you're BOTH protected (I am talking condoms). So just safely enjoy it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      But it'll numb the initial pain & nerves?

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