Is it normal that i'm constantly preparing myself to get dumped?

I'm 19f my boyfriend's 20 we've been together a couple months and I've never had a boyfriend before but he can't even remember the number of girls he's been with. He's very loving. Tells me he loves me all the time. I don't have any reason not to trust him. Despite all this I'm still always scared he's gonna break up with me.

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  • JonathanOo

    Until you learn to be confident in yourself and understand WHY he loves you over anyone else, it's normal to feel that way. I'm not sure how one can be prepared though..

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  • dirtybirdy

    Thats gotta cause some sort of inadvertent stress between you. Stop that, and enjoy the time you have together.

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  • CreamPies

    Painal

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe he's given you some signs that you're in denial about or only aware of on an unconscious level? Then again, maybe you have a fear of abandonment?

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  • BahmBitosWhap

    You gotta try to trust him :) Thats what a relationship is about.

    I can see why youd be skeptical with how many girls he may have been with, but it doesnt matter.

    If he loves you then he does and you should trust him :)

    Unless of course you think something suspicious is going on, but normally just trust.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Youll get better sex from people whove been with more people.

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