Is it normal that i'm being obsessive over my bestfriend to get his attention?

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My bestfriend and I, are both in our early 20's, and it's only been recently within the past few months, that I've had alot of difficulty getting in touch with him whether it's texting, calling, emailing, driving to his house to find that he's not home, etc. The more I'm unable to get in touch with him, the more and more I become obsessed with thinking about him. Not only that, as much as I hate to say it, I also feel like I'm starting to develop dislike for him. It's his unreliability that's making me have dislike for him. I care about him very much, and I would never do anything to hurt him or jeopardize our friendship, and I honestly don't feel good about having such negative feelings about someone I care about, but is what I'm experiencing normal?

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  • Heh?
    12 years ago | pl

    Your obsession does not seem normal.

    To cope with the bitterness, you can construct a stalker-altar for him with candles and everything to help you feel closer to his unreliable spirit.

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  • thatweirdgirl
    12 years ago | pl

    I can say that i experience similar feelings. You just miss him. Write him a letter explaining this. Maybe there are things going on in his life that require isolation. Or, maybe he just needs some space.

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  • abetdarkness
    12 years ago | pl

    are u in love with him or something? read what u just said over and over again until u realize it's kinda creepy, u need to get some new friends and stop obsessing so much about him.. it's not healthy at all

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