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I'm a failure at everything and just a waste of space in this world. Unemployed, Living in Parents house, no girlfriend and I don't do anything about it. is it normal that i'm such a pathetic human being?
Maybe you're getting really stir crazy? I'm a middle aged woman, and everyday I thank God that I'm not living with my folks, and sister next door! Maybe you feel badly, because your family of origin is full of overbearing narcissists who routinely nag, harrass and put you down?
Whatever... you know neither of us actually know the whole story of OPs sorrow. I just have a feeling about this one, and I feel like this person is not trying to play the victim. I could be wrong of course, but I should also right.
Hopefully OP will elaborate on his or her struggle.
No, it's not normal that you're a pathetic human being. If it were normal, then people with jobs, girl/boyfriends, and their own houses would be the losers.
Unless you have depression or some other illness affecting your mental state, you need to get off your pathetic ass and get a job. The house and girlfriend will follow if you work at it.
I get it, no seriously I do! My mind keeps telling me how much of a fucking disgrace I am. However, there's one thing that makes me snap out of it.
We has human being's won something, the race against a bunch of sperm. Think about it, out of all the sperm that could've won, we as living human beings beat that race.
You need to get out of your little bubble of comfort, and out into the world, do not feel sorry for yourself, make a change. First get a job, so you can rent your own place, you simple must brake out of that victim mentality it is not serving you only holding you back.
Well, why don't you do something about it? Something I learned way too late was just how much control I really had over my life. I always allowed life to happen instead of making it happen, and hoped things would eventually get better. Well, they didn't. You have to make your life better.
I get this pandemic doesn't make it the easiest at the moment, but you can start making a plan.
By the way, you're not a waste of space.