Is it normal that i like girls under my age?

I may sound a bit crazy, but i love girls who are 15-17 years old, i just like the idea of "fresh" girls who had not much previous sexual encounters and i can teach them how it`s done.
I am 26 yo btw.

EDIT: Do not bring legal shit... I forgot to mention that the girl is 17 years old and wants to be with me... (in a imaginary scenario)

EDIT 2: So i checked the age of consent here and its 14 years old, so fuck the sensitive assholes who thinks its rape even if the girls wants.

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  • This is 2020. That is considered sexual assault, contributing to sexual delinquincy of a minor, maybe could be rape, maybe crossing a state line with a minor, geez i think the list can and should go on and on and on and on. If you want to fantasize zbout it thats one thing. To act on it can be maybe 5-15 years in prison. Or longer. Maybe you should consider chemical castration for yourself. And when you get caught once then you are on the watchlist, you hsve to register as a sexual offender or deviant for LIFE. Then your neighbors find out who you are then your car gets drmolished, your home pfobably hit with molotav cocktails, etc.
    That does NOT SOUND LIKE its worth a young girls virginity. In fact maybe you should save the young girls the pain and just go turn yourself in now to the pre crime unit.

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    • Oh yeah... 2020, the crystal society year...

      But if the girl is up to make out with me, its still "rape"?

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      • Minors under the age of 18 LEGALLY CANNOT GIVE CONSENT for engaging in sex act especially with a perv like yourself. In fact - you are at your computer/device. Look up your state and see for yourself. If a minor cannot legally give consent AND YOU KNOW they are minors then the book or cell door or whatever you want to call it will come down on you even harder. Theres coercing a minor for sex, meeting a minor teen female for purpose of illegal sexual activity, then if you go somewhere and get a room she could play the victim and say you kidnapped her and held her against her will, then you would be damn lucky if you are still alive at the end of the day. Especially if her daddy is around. Daddies that love care for and PROTECT their daughters would probably just as soon shoot you in the head and leave you for dead if he thought you were forcing his daughter.

        Bottom line - if you act on that fantasy, urge, desire whatever you call it - you are dancing with the devil and playing with fire.
        If i had a 17 yr old daughter and a 24 yr old was flirting or trying to talk her into having sex, it would be very difficult to not beat you or a predator senseless.

        In fact i have a nephew that is gay. He went to asia somewhere that it woild be legal for him to engage is sex with minirs. I guess he was happy as a clam. Then coming home he flew into new york somewhere. He was searched, they said oh your laptop ? Turn it on fire it up. He made videos of what he did. Needless to say the authorities found those videos. Ges in prison for bringing child porn into US,. SO why not just meet a nice jewish girl, she might let you put it in her ass someday. Leave the kids alone. YES THAT DOESNT SOUND LIKE A THREAT , but consider it one. Leave the kidsies alone.

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        • 16 is the age of consent in most states and in england

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          • I would bet that to be wrong. Most states in the united states is 18, unless the kid is emancipated minor or 16 if the act happens within a military compound or base. OTHERWISE WHATS THERE TO ARGUE ABOUT. IF I HAD A 15 16 YR OLD DAUGHTER AND A 24 YO GUY WAS FLIRTING WITH HER, I WOULD BEAT HIM DOWN SO HE NEVERS EVEN THINKS THAT AGAIN.

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            • This map may be outdated because other maps on google show KY as 18 now

              https://external-preview.redd.it/YF7Jwo_-RduZXQR2MdHReFxNR5iRZ8R44qI3VMjDM50.png?auto=webp&s=03a44b2b02c27c81209184bae18c7336811b820c

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        • The age of consent here is 13 yo... all your text went in the toilet mate.

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      • While I don't think it would fall under the legal definition of rape, it would still be sexual assault. Even if where you live has the four years standard (or whatever it's called), a seventeen year old would still be considered underage, due to you being five years too old.

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        • My understanding is the romeo and juliet laws only applies to say a 16yo who had sex with a 12yo. If you are above the age of consent (16 in some states) you can have sex with a 60yo from what I can tell on Google. It sounds crazy but im pretty sure. Say you're in kentucky where 16 is the age of consent. You can fuck a 60yo while being only 16. (Im not saying its good but thats what Ive read idk)

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          • In Florida, the rule states that someone fourteen or older can have sexual relations with an eighteen year old. They can't have sexual relations with anyone older. I suppose some states are different, though.

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          • Exactly... but as you can see, its all legal crap.. just because the girl is 18 i can be with her, but if she is just 1 or 2 years younger is sexual assault? its dumb...

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        • But the girl likes me, and she could be my girlfriend... its that NOT normal?
          I saw guys of 17 years old making out with 34 yo women, that is normal?

          I think when a woman does it, its normal, when a guy does, its sexual assault.

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          • Those women are also predators.

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          • It's not normal either way. No matter what the genders are, it's still, legally, sexual assault.

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            • I swear here in my country its not like that, like i said... Its just because of a legal shit, no one cares about the age as long the other person is up to make out with you.
              15-17 years old its not a child, its not sexual assault if the girl WANTS to be with you, PERIOD.

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    • I like the way you think! 🤠👍🏻

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  • This thread is a dumpster 🔥

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  • I think the issue is an imbalance of power. You have a lot of power over someone who is that much younger than you because they are so immature and inexperienced, which is why it is usually classed as abuse. It's very easy to manipulate someone so much younger.

    However, I have always argued that you have this exact same issue if you get, for example, a 60 year old dating a 25 year old, and that's perfectly legal. Everyone would just say that they're both happy and to leave them to their business.

    So I don't know. I don't think there's anything wrong with it on a moral level, assuming that the girls have gone through puberty enough to look adult, but you have to decide whether or not you are abusing that power you have over them. I couldn't really say for sure.

    I have to be honest though- if my 16 year old daughter brought home a 26 year old boyfriend, my first thought would be "why the fuck are you hanging around with a 16 year old? Aren't women your own age interested in you?!". When I was 26 there is no way in hell I'd have wanted to hang out with teenagers. They are basically just kids once you're that age.

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    • In response to your third paragraph: girls go into puberty earlier and earlier these days and may "look adult", but that doesn't mean they're old enough to be giving informed consent to sex, especially to someone much older. My grand daughter began menstruation before she turned 10, which apparently isn't uncommon, and at just turned 13 she's 6 feet tall.

      None of that makes her ready for sex: fortunately she knows that, but other seemingly adult looking kids may not be as sensible.

      Sure, this isn't a moral issue in sexual terms, but surely someone abusing their power over another is immoral?

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      • I think I was unclear. I didn't mean that it was appropriate for a girl who has hit puberty to have a sexual relationship with an adult. What I meant was that I don't believe it is morally wrong for an adult to merely find a young girl sexually attractive, so long as she has gone through puberty. It isn't peadophilic to be attracted to a female with an adult looking body, no matter how young she actually is.

        E.g. a 13 yr old girl may look 18. I did at that age. It's ridiculous to suggest that a man's private sexual attraction is objectively wrong purely because of her age. Her actual age, and the laws surrounding consent, are irrelevant when it comes to sexual attraction. Now, actually ACTING upon those feelings is an entirely different matter. That's where we get into dodgey territory. I do not support adults having sexual/romantic relationships with children.

        I hope I have explained this clearly.

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        • Very well explained thank you! I also looked 18 at 13 & 14, but I definitely wasn't mature enough to be aware of the possible ramifications of having sex at that age.

          And yes, a man or woman's private sexual attraction is not the same thing as acting on it.

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      • Exactly, 16 yo girls should be fucked only by 14-17 yo boys only...

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    • I think exactly the same as you... I know its a bit of abuse of power, but as i stated, if the girls wants, then its ok...

      Its something that its very sensitive to talk about really.

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  • 15-17 is still essentially a child, especially mentally. Most that age have yet to have much life experience and still have a pretty naive thought process, common with youth.

    At that age, most of them still LOOK like kids as well. I didn't think so when I was that age, myself, but now that I'm 25, they look SO young.

    Also, keep in mind that age doesn't always predict sexual experience. There are plenty of 17-year-olds who have been around the block, and people in their 20's who are not very experienced and/or have chosen to wait. If someone with a low partner count who takes sex more seriously than just a casual fling is what you are looking for, just look for people with similar values. They are out there.

    However, judging by the fact that you're referring to CHILDREN as "fresh meat", it seems you just have a thing for taking young, naive, and impressionable girls' virginities, which is beyond sick. Do everyone a favor and just get a blowup doll and leave kids alone. They're kids; they lack the life experience to make wise decisions about being "in love" with a 26-year-old and do not fully realize what they are getting themselves into, and any decent parent should be putting the kibosh to that (with you likely ending up on a sex offenders list).

    To be honest, the vast majority of relationships between teens (including older teens) and someone well into their 20's or older tend to be dysfunctional at best, and abusive/controlling at worst. I have yet to see one that actually lasted either, especially considering that so much about a person changes after their teen years. But, judging by what you've written, it sounds like you just want to sleep with them. If so, don't you think it's also a bit hypocritical that you expect the girls you sleep with to be "fresh", yet you presumably have, or at least want to, sleep with several?

    mouldiwarp is right, you could really mess up a kid's life doing this. Just stay away from them. You want to take advantage of them.

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    • Hahahah the "fresh meat" was just a joke... i have a very bad sense of humor i know... but you are right.

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      • Please explain what could possibly be funny about describing another human being as "fresh meat"?

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        • Dark sense of humour, which you dont have... everyone is different, this is internet ffs.

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          • Still waiting for an explanation as to how this could possibly be funny in any context.

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  • 14 can be legal all it wants but that's a child, fucking disgusting wanting to sleep with a child.

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  • You’re old enough to be going to bars, use dating websites, anything besides flirting with 9th graders, literal kids. Doesn’t matter what the child wants, be the adult and say ‘no’ if she’s coming on to you, it’s your duty to protect minors in this situation. A person’s brain isn’t done developing until they’re 25-30, looking physically mature doesn’t matter.

    You could really fuck someone up mentally once they’re older and realize how creepy and gross the encounter was.

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  • Here's how I see it. Just my personal opinion.
    Im 48. I would date a woman a little older, like 55, because I like mature women, but about my own age is what I prefer.

    Its not unlikely that I would date a woman in her 30s to my age. Age just doesn't mean much to me. No big deal if you have a lot in common.

    20 to 29: probably wouldn't date her, but maybe. Its just not likely that I'd have much in common with her but who knows?

    18 to 19: almost definitely wouldnt date her but I wouldnt judge a guy who did. Maybe she likes older men (unlikely)? Not that big of a deal.

    17: no. While some 17 yesr olds understand the reprocussions of their actions, most dont.

    16: hell no. They just aren't mature enough to understand what's going on.

    14-15: hell fuck no. If a 50 year old dated my neice or stepdaughter I would break his knees and penis.

    13: paedophile. Deserves his throat cut.

    Under 13? Well, let's put it this wsy... at the point in time that you think its ok to have sex with a child, then please send me your contact info. Ill show up at your house and destroy you in the most horrible way.

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    • I would NEVER be with a child, 13-15 is way too young i agree... but 16 or 17? cmon.. its more than OK.
      My morals aren`t of a crybaby pussy who gets worked up by shit like this, i dont know man.

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      • Its not legally ok. Maybe when you were 18-20 you might have thought this way, but your 26. You have responsibilities as an adult in his mid 20's. That means something man. You can't be banging children and by children people that are legally underaged.

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        • Fuck legal stuff, its just shit written to a stone that everybody follows just to be seen as good people... i am not politically correct in any way.

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      • Ok. Maybe ur not a pedo, but why aren't u attracted to women your own age? To me it just seems normal to want women whith whom you are in the realm of maturity with. At least 10 years either way. Ever tried older women? They're great i promise.

        Wait... i just reread ur post... you said 15 to 17... dude, check yourself! You sound like a paedo to me.

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        • I love women of 15 and 17 but also women the same age as me and older too, i just like the idea of girls without much experience, that is all.

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  • So I guess the reason you want this is because women your own age or older have known enough to show YOU how it's done and that made you feel inadequate, therefore needing to go after young inexperienced girls? You're a pathetic excuse for a man.

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    • No, i just like virgin girls, that it is... got a problem?

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      • I don't, but I think you do. Ever tried to work out why you need to be the experienced one with an inexperienced woman?

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  • It depends which country you live in. In America every state is different. Most states the age of consent is 16. Some states its 17 and some 18.

    Nothing we are gonna say is gonna change your mind. If you go after some 15yo you'll be a sex offender and everyone will always hate you. You will be assaulted mercilessly in prison and everyone will abandon you. Might as well go after a legal girl

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    • 15 is too young, but if the girls is up to it... then why not lol.

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  • well, 30 thousand years ago, you could do what ever you wanted with anyone. so no its not unnatural, but it is against the law. dont feel like you are gross or anything man.

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    • Thanks mate, yeah i know things in the past were a lot better, now its all about the stupid laws.

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  • Having been a girl of that age just a few short years ago, I can say that 15-17y/o girls want sex and often fancy older guys. They are physically developed/look like adults at that age so you aren’t really doing anything wrong.

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    • no you see, thats the problem. They are still KIDS, they can be easily manipulated and because they're horny af adults can take advantage of the child that easily. However, just like how a kid under the age of 18 can't drink, or make any gigantic decisions for themselves, they shouldn't be having any physical relations with adults.

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      • Why? because you or any of these moral dumbfucks say so? if a horny teenager comes to me, and i find her attractive, i will fuck her.

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        • listen dude, kids that aren't legally adults don't get to consent. ik the difference between 17 and 18 isn't much but we have to draw the line somewhere. Just because a kid wants it doesn't mean its good for them. A child might want to eat cookies for breakfast everyday, doesn't mean we should let them. As adults its our responsibility to do whats right for them.

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    • Exactly, that is what i thought too.

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  • It seems to me you are trying to have all these replies convince you to some degree that its alright, that its ok in society, and that you can walk the streets safely knowing that a 34 yr old guy just made out or had sex with a 15 yr old female. Once the word got out you might better go into witness protection so you dont get slammed into the sidewalk headfirst.

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    • I am not trying anything, people are putting their opinions here, such as you do.

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  • You basically just said "i'm a pedophile". In certain countries with lower age of consent I can ALMOST see 17 as a possibility, though still creepy. but 15? that's literal pedophilia. Also idk where you live where age of consent is 14, how is that even possible?

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    • Yes, its possible, this is in South America, here we aren`t such moral pussies as i can see in North America... it all depends on the person who wants to be with you and if their fathers are alright with that.

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      • I get that there are cultural boundaries but 15 is way too young man. It doesn't hurt to go for girls your age. Its not about being "moral pussies", its about not being a threat to children, I think that's pretty universal. they are not fully developed. when I was a teen I would have done dumb ass shit with adults too, and I had friends who did and I was jealous because boys my age were boring. but now that I'm 18 I can safely say all that shit was wrong and me and my friends were playing with fire, and didn't understand the concept in full detail. they are vulnerable, don't use that to your advantage.

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  • I have a sixteen year old cousin, and I would gladly beat any 26 year old to a pulp who tried to get with her!

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  • You don't sound the least bit normal to me, you sound like a sexual predator is what sound like. Shame on you!

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  • Women have fully developed their bodies by 16. It doesn't matter though because hive-mind retards will still call you a pedo.

    16, wel il av u no dats a child u purvurt!!!

    These guys would call you a pedo for shagging 29 year olds if their country had the AOC at 30.

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    • 16-year-olds have next to zero life experience and are extremely naive and impressionable, and very much still childlike in mentality in a lot of ways. That is why 26-year-olds going after them is highly inappropriate and very questionable.

      Even a 16-year-old who is "very mature for their age" is still only 16, still has next to zero life experience, and still doesn't fully understand a lot of what they can get themselves into. They are nowhere near adults in mentality, no matter how mature they may be. Not to mention that they're usually very easily controlled and manipulated due to their naivety and lack of resources (the vast majority of 16-year-olds are unable to provide for themselves). Also, they're still in high school and living with their parents (or at least dependent on someone), for crying out loud!!!

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      • I was 16 not that long ago, and thinking how mentally developed me and my friends were at that age we were completely able to engage in sexual activity, and we did absolutely have life experience in areas we'd engaged with. Honestly, if a person is so mentally incapable that they can't deal with deciding whether or not they want sex at 16 then a couple more years isn't going to make a difference.

        You gain life experience by dealing with issues like this. You have no life experience in an area until you deal with it. It should be decided on whether the person is intelligent enough to make that decision, not based on "life experience". The argument of not having life experience can be used for anything on anyone who has not engaged with that activity before.

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        • Yes, but 16-year-olds should be gaining that experience with other 16-year-olds, not 26-year-olds who are trying to take advantage of them. To be honest, if a 26-year-old can't (or isn't willing to) find someone closer to their age, there is something wrong with that person.

          What I mean by life experience is that they are less likely to know when they are being used or taken advantage of, to recognize red flags in people (in fact, as a teen, I was much more accepting of people who were full of red flags than I am now, simply due to my lack of life experience at the time), and more likely to make some poor judgment calls. Life experience isn't just experiencing an activity such as having sex, it's the experience you gain with people and life in general. At 16, kids are very new to making their own decisions and having freedom and independence, and therefore lack experience in making important decisions on their own and knowing how people act. I have always had a decent instinct for when something was up with someone, but at 25, I can spot something off a lot better than I could at 16. Teens are very naive and impressionable due to their lack of life experience, because they simply haven't lived long enough to fully grasp much about people and the world yet. That is something that can only come with time, there is no substitute for it.

          I have been friends with people who got into relationships with much older men as teens, and many of them ended up in controlling and abusive relationships (since something these types of adults like about teens is that they tend to be easier to control and manipulate), and there was always something not quite right about the guys. Best case scenario, they were extremely immature for their age and could not relate to anyone their own age (and most of these were jobless losers who could only convince a native teen with low standards to like them), and worse case scenario, they were control freaks who liked the fact that it was pretty easy to take advantage of teens, and teens usually put up with more and there's a clear power imbalance between a teen and a full grown adult. It's just not a smart idea for a teen to be in a relationship with someone 21+, not to mention that at those ages so much change happens and they're in such different stages of life that they're usually incompatible anyway.

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          • Yeah, you know what, dude. I get you on this, I think 16 is old enough, but I see where you're coming from, and whilst I personally think I was ready at 16 and so were my friends, I respect your opinion and think you make some valid point, and I would even agree with you that some people at that age could well be taken advantage of due to naivety.

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            • Thanks! I really started to realize it looking from the outside in at some of my friends' relationships, and then eventually seeing guys my age (in the 25 range) doing the same thing to high school age girls. While I think 16-year-olds having sex with other 16-year-olds or at least around that age is pretty normal, I think it's beyond weird for 25-year-olds to even be hanging out with high schoolers, let alone making advances towards them and having sex with them. Teens should be having those experiences with other people their age IMO.

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          • Any 26 year old who is sniffing after 16 year olds is not only not normal, but is also a piece of shit.

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            • I totally agree! There's a group of guys I went to high school with who are known for this in my old town. 🤮

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    • exactly bigbud... i noticed that people is fucking stupid for these things and called me a perv and a pedo already.

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