Is it normal that i like girls under my age?

This is 2020. That is considered sexual assault, contributing to sexual delinquincy of a minor, maybe could be rape, maybe crossing a state line with a minor, geez i think the list can and should go on and on and on and on. If you want to fantasize zbout it thats one thing. To act on it can be maybe 5-15 years in prison. Or longer. Maybe you should consider chemical castration for yourself. And when you get caught once then you are on the watchlist, you hsve to register as a sexual offender or deviant for LIFE. Then your neighbors find out who you are then your car gets drmolished, your home pfobably hit with molotav cocktails, etc.
That does NOT SOUND LIKE its worth a young girls virginity. In fact maybe you should save the young girls the pain and just go turn yourself in now to the pre crime unit.

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I think the issue is an imbalance of power. You have a lot of power over someone who is that much younger than you because they are so immature and inexperienced, which is why it is usually classed as abuse. It's very easy to manipulate someone so much younger.

However, I have always argued that you have this exact same issue if you get, for example, a 60 year old dating a 25 year old, and that's perfectly legal. Everyone would just say that they're both happy and to leave them to their business.

So I don't know. I don't think there's anything wrong with it on a moral level, assuming that the girls have gone through puberty enough to look adult, but you have to decide whether or not you are abusing that power you have over them. I couldn't really say for sure.

I have to be honest though- if my 16 year old daughter brought home a 26 year old boyfriend, my first thought would be "why the fuck are you hanging around with a 16 year old? Aren't women your own age interested in you?!". When I was 26 there is no way in hell I'd have wanted to hang out with teenagers. They are basically just kids once you're that age.

15-17 is still essentially a child, especially mentally. Most that age have yet to have much life experience and still have a pretty naive thought process, common with youth.

At that age, most of them still LOOK like kids as well. I didn't think so when I was that age, myself, but now that I'm 25, they look SO young.

Also, keep in mind that age doesn't always predict sexual experience. There are plenty of 17-year-olds who have been around the block, and people in their 20's who are not very experienced and/or have chosen to wait. If someone with a low partner count who takes sex more seriously than just a casual fling is what you are looking for, just look for people with similar values. They are out there.

However, judging by the fact that you're referring to CHILDREN as "fresh meat", it seems you just have a thing for taking young, naive, and impressionable girls' virginities, which is beyond sick. Do everyone a favor and just get a blowup doll and leave kids alone. They're kids; they lack the life experience to make wise decisions about being "in love" with a 26-year-old and do not fully realize what they are getting themselves into, and any decent parent should be putting the kibosh to that (with you likely ending up on a sex offenders list).

To be honest, the vast majority of relationships between teens (including older teens) and someone well into their 20's or older tend to be dysfunctional at best, and abusive/controlling at worst. I have yet to see one that actually lasted either, especially considering that so much about a person changes after their teen years. But, judging by what you've written, it sounds like you just want to sleep with them. If so, don't you think it's also a bit hypocritical that you expect the girls you sleep with to be "fresh", yet you presumably have, or at least want to, sleep with several?

mouldiwarp is right, you could really mess up a kid's life doing this. Just stay away from them. You want to take advantage of them.

14 can be legal all it wants but that's a child, fucking disgusting wanting to sleep with a child.

You’re old enough to be going to bars, use dating websites, anything besides flirting with 9th graders, literal kids. Doesn’t matter what the child wants, be the adult and say ‘no’ if she’s coming on to you, it’s your duty to protect minors in this situation. A person’s brain isn’t done developing until they’re 25-30, looking physically mature doesn’t matter.

You could really fuck someone up mentally once they’re older and realize how creepy and gross the encounter was.

Here's how I see it. Just my personal opinion.
Im 48. I would date a woman a little older, like 55, because I like mature women, but about my own age is what I prefer.

Its not unlikely that I would date a woman in her 30s to my age. Age just doesn't mean much to me. No big deal if you have a lot in common.

20 to 29: probably wouldn't date her, but maybe. Its just not likely that I'd have much in common with her but who knows?

18 to 19: almost definitely wouldnt date her but I wouldnt judge a guy who did. Maybe she likes older men (unlikely)? Not that big of a deal.

17: no. While some 17 yesr olds understand the reprocussions of their actions, most dont.

16: hell no. They just aren't mature enough to understand what's going on.

14-15: hell fuck no. If a 50 year old dated my neice or stepdaughter I would break his knees and penis.

13: paedophile. Deserves his throat cut.

Under 13? Well, let's put it this wsy... at the point in time that you think its ok to have sex with a child, then please send me your contact info. Ill show up at your house and destroy you in the most horrible way.

So I guess the reason you want this is because women your own age or older have known enough to show YOU how it's done and that made you feel inadequate, therefore needing to go after young inexperienced girls? You're a pathetic excuse for a man.

well, 30 thousand years ago, you could do what ever you wanted with anyone. so no its not unnatural, but it is against the law. dont feel like you are gross or anything man.

Having been a girl of that age just a few short years ago, I can say that 15-17y/o girls want sex and often fancy older guys. They are physically developed/look like adults at that age so you aren’t really doing anything wrong.

So the laws says it's legal to bang a 14 year old and you would actually do that? How about if it were 10 would that suit u as well?

It's totally normal.

It seems to me you are trying to have all these replies convince you to some degree that its alright, that its ok in society, and that you can walk the streets safely knowing that a 34 yr old guy just made out or had sex with a 15 yr old female. Once the word got out you might better go into witness protection so you dont get slammed into the sidewalk headfirst.

You basically just said "i'm a pedophile". In certain countries with lower age of consent I can ALMOST see 17 as a possibility, though still creepy. but 15? that's literal pedophilia. Also idk where you live where age of consent is 14, how is that even possible?

I have a sixteen year old cousin, and I would gladly beat any 26 year old to a pulp who tried to get with her!

You don't sound the least bit normal to me, you sound like a sexual predator is what sound like. Shame on you!

Women have fully developed their bodies by 16. It doesn't matter though because hive-mind retards will still call you a pedo.

16, wel il av u no dats a child u purvurt!!!

These guys would call you a pedo for shagging 29 year olds if their country had the AOC at 30.