Here's my take on it. This coming from a 19 year old girl. For a long time, I was very much the same as you. Sex kinda freaked me out, so I was eager to see "how far was too far"...
But it did put me in a lot of scary situations.
A lot of guys will think less of you if you sacrifice much so readily. But you can avoid taking things too far. I learned that a boy is MUCH less likely to push things too fast if you tell him before hand that you don't want sex. Tell him you're only looking for foreplay type activity. Most guys don't mind this if they're told ahead of time. And many are more involved because they don't feel "expected" to have sex. Just be careful and express your limits BEFORE you play. ;)
IIN That I Like Getting Boys Fired Up But Never Want To Do 'IT'??
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Here's my take on it. This coming from a 19 year old girl. For a long time, I was very much the same as you. Sex kinda freaked me out, so I was eager to see "how far was too far"...
But it did put me in a lot of scary situations.
A lot of guys will think less of you if you sacrifice much so readily. But you can avoid taking things too far. I learned that a boy is MUCH less likely to push things too fast if you tell him before hand that you don't want sex. Tell him you're only looking for foreplay type activity. Most guys don't mind this if they're told ahead of time. And many are more involved because they don't feel "expected" to have sex. Just be careful and express your limits BEFORE you play. ;)