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IIN, i like knowing that i can have a guy even if i dont want them. i kinda feel bad afterwards but and i horrible for it? i dont want to be and i feel like i dont notise it untill after :S x
I've known people who like to do that and it is most often looked down upon(that means it's bad). It's rude and some might even call it cruel. Though I do believe it to be normal enough. You're exploring the boundaries of yourself and others and seeing who you would be able to do what with and who you wouldn't. It's a learning process and you're finding out where you stand when it comes to finding a mate. I'm not saying you're looking for one, but your natural instincts are leading you there. This is as best as I can explain because I can't seem to find the right words or phrase right now but yes, it is very much "normal". It just isn't very nice.
lol rape.. is it really something so serious that someone might go to the extent of rape though?
This silly girl doesn't even know how high her risk of getting raped is! (I'd say she's a max of 14 yo). I'm not saying it is justified by any means but it's more than her own life she plans to ruin! If she meets some extremely hormonal youth, she'll be luck to escape with a black eye!! Don't forget that most rape cases don't even make it to court and if she has a reputation for teasing the lads the police will know she won't get much sympathy from a jury.
I have a son and can only pray he doesn't meet this type of idiot too often.
Most males tend to not be very picky with the females they want so don't think you're anything special.
Thats very harsh. You are gonna get yourself hurt if you do this all the time. Above all, you sound like a complete bitch.
You're a bitch. It takes a lot for a guy to get to the point of confessing that he has feelings for a girl, don't take advantage of that.
I do exactly the same thing to girls. I used to do it unintentionally but a few of my friends started noticing my behaviour. They spoke to me about it and brought it to my attention.
We then turned it into a game (dont judge us). Haha. We do this thing were we go to the mall and I try to seduce women. I get there numbers and I NEVER call them again. It was funny for a while... But then girls in my high school found out and I was branded a "player"
That wasn't cool... But yeah. It was fun for a while.
I have seen people like you often judge harsly and even called by many names, none very nice! Good luck with your choices
Here's my take on it. This coming from a 19 year old girl. For a long time, I was very much the same as you. Sex kinda freaked me out, so I was eager to see "how far was too far"...
But it did put me in a lot of scary situations.
A lot of guys will think less of you if you sacrifice much so readily. But you can avoid taking things too far. I learned that a boy is MUCH less likely to push things too fast if you tell him before hand that you don't want sex. Tell him you're only looking for foreplay type activity. Most guys don't mind this if they're told ahead of time. And many are more involved because they don't feel "expected" to have sex. Just be careful and express your limits BEFORE you play. ;)
I'm not sure if I understand the story. You like leading men on? You enjoy letting them down?
Sadistic aren't ya?
If you want a confidence boost flirt with a stranger for a day, don't break hearts.