Well i think i can understand why you would like that. A fathers love is in a league of its own. Unconditional, pure, caring.
A father will go in the ends of the world for his daughter. A father will protect his child no matter what.
So as werid as it sounds, it makes some sense why you would like that.
Though the problem of finding a SO is a troubling one. What if you have a child together? And this guy's fantasy breaches reality?... Thats what you need to worry about
I wasn't talking about "my" fantasy but facts and why do you want to live in a fantasy rather than reality?
Reality can be changed for the better but not if we fantasise it doesn't exist.
Check out statistics and see how many women are raising children by themselves because of absent fathers and what proportion of abused children are abused by male parents or step-parents.
I see the statistic. It maybe how I worded my statement, but I have not blinded my self from reality, I know there are shit fathers, I had one. but I have also seen many amazing ones who were quite the role model.
keep in mind on my original statement not once did I say "most father." I said "A father".
but the difference between you and me is I don't focus on the negatives.
I can care less if most are shit fathers, all I know is great ones exist, and by mostly focusing on the positive aspect of this, I have but only one thing to aspire from.
I hope you find a loving husband and father Ellenna. I really do.
And doesn't the phrase "a father" imply that most or all fathers fit this idealised unrealistic image? If you'd said "the ideal father" you would have been acknowledging the reality.
I am not "focussing on the negative" I am pointing out reality: society will never change for the better if the truth isn't acknowledged.
Bit late in life for me to find either of those, I'm afraid
Thanks for this. I did a more in depth analysis on this issue.
In America, only 35% about 24million of children are in a single parent home. And they are mostly mothers. That means 65% are living with two parent. So majority are most likely not shit fathers.
In Canada, where I live, 78 per cent of kids lived with two parents, 20 per cent lived in a single-parent home and one per cent lived with no parents.
But in the grand scheme of things, Asia, which is where most of our population is,(4.4billion) and middle east, have a predominant two parent home.
with that said, you're wrong, you talk like you know the "truth". But have been blinded by your own experiences, and have probably blinded a whole lot more people.
It is not often Fathers are Absent or abusive.
You are in fact a negative person, with a narrow point of view. You are also throwing in the towel to your love life. that also helps my judgment.
my 70+ year old grandfather still try's to find love even after the passing of my grandmother years ago. my 45+mother still and almost there to finding love. They have not given up like you have.
Ellenna get off that dark fantasy of yours before you blind more people with your "truth".
IIN that I like Daddy/daughter role play?
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Well i think i can understand why you would like that. A fathers love is in a league of its own. Unconditional, pure, caring.
A father will go in the ends of the world for his daughter. A father will protect his child no matter what.
So as werid as it sounds, it makes some sense why you would like that.
Though the problem of finding a SO is a troubling one. What if you have a child together? And this guy's fantasy breaches reality?... Thats what you need to worry about
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Its not at all about an emotional desire....just about being at someone else's will. My fantasy isn't tethered to my own father or anyone else's.
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Well if being turned on by daddydaughter role play isnt an emotional desire, than shit i don't know what is.
Whatever
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Which fantasy world do you live in? The Brady Bunch or what?
A father's love isn't always all those things, often it's totally absent or abusive.
Unconditional, pure, caring...... ha ha, not my experience or most people's either I'll bet.
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I much rather live in this fantasy than your dark one to be honest.
Though i must admit there are bad ones, but i wouldnt be so quick to say fathers are "often" absent and abusive.
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I wasn't talking about "my" fantasy but facts and why do you want to live in a fantasy rather than reality?
Reality can be changed for the better but not if we fantasise it doesn't exist.
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I see the statistic. It maybe how I worded my statement, but I have not blinded my self from reality, I know there are shit fathers, I had one. but I have also seen many amazing ones who were quite the role model.
keep in mind on my original statement not once did I say "most father." I said "A father".
but the difference between you and me is I don't focus on the negatives.
I can care less if most are shit fathers, all I know is great ones exist, and by mostly focusing on the positive aspect of this, I have but only one thing to aspire from.
I hope you find a loving husband and father Ellenna. I really do.
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And doesn't the phrase "a father" imply that most or all fathers fit this idealised unrealistic image? If you'd said "the ideal father" you would have been acknowledging the reality.
I am not "focussing on the negative" I am pointing out reality: society will never change for the better if the truth isn't acknowledged.
Bit late in life for me to find either of those, I'm afraid
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Thanks for this. I did a more in depth analysis on this issue.
In America, only 35% about 24million of children are in a single parent home. And they are mostly mothers. That means 65% are living with two parent. So majority are most likely not shit fathers.
In Canada, where I live, 78 per cent of kids lived with two parents, 20 per cent lived in a single-parent home and one per cent lived with no parents.
But in the grand scheme of things, Asia, which is where most of our population is,(4.4billion) and middle east, have a predominant two parent home.
with that said, you're wrong, you talk like you know the "truth". But have been blinded by your own experiences, and have probably blinded a whole lot more people.
It is not often Fathers are Absent or abusive.
You are in fact a negative person, with a narrow point of view. You are also throwing in the towel to your love life. that also helps my judgment.
my 70+ year old grandfather still try's to find love even after the passing of my grandmother years ago. my 45+mother still and almost there to finding love. They have not given up like you have.
Ellenna get off that dark fantasy of yours before you blind more people with your "truth".