Is it normal that i like a friend in a sexual way but she doesn't back?

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I have a close friend that I like in a very intimate way but she doesn't like me that way back. Sometimes I fantasize about us being together and eating each other out. I don't know if I am bisexual or not. We are close friends because our mums are but we don't really hang out. She is really the only thing closest to my friend and I am worried if I am honest with her or tell her I am bisexual/lesbian she will get uncomfortable and not talk to me anymore.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    I'd reckon there's no doubt you're bisexual, just like most of the rest of us!

    That's completely normal, but hard to manage unless you can get up the courage to sound her out about her sexuality: as in, does she think most people are bi? and then check out her reaction. You'll have some idea then if you have a chance with her.

    Good luck!

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  • Boobmaster68
    7 years ago

    Drop a couple hints. See if she picks up on them.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    I think its worth taking the risk of being honest with her. If it works out you get what you want if it doesn't your right where you are now. Can you live with not taking the chance? You could be subtle and bring it up in a way that gives you a out like... hey I saw this movie with 2 girls making out and it was really hot... or whatever find a movie or book or some thing and see how she reacts. If shes like ewww gross then you probly don't have a chance but you should find out some how. Good luck.

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  • Jujudog
    7 years ago

    when you say she doesn't like you that way back - how have you established this?

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    • lucindahatesliars
      7 years ago

      Well, I told her I have a bi-suexual friend and she pretends to gag.

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  • spark007
    7 years ago

    Yes, it's completely normal. Have you had feelings for other girls since childhood?

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    • lucindahatesliars
      7 years ago

      Not that I can remember but I like both genders, so I liked boys but I have had a change of mind and like girls.

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