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It's really weird. I immediately lose interest after I find out my crush on a guy is mutual. One of my crushes was a best friend, but I feel really bad, as if I led him on. I wasn't insecure or scared of having a relationship with him. It's just my attraction to him was no longer there.
Pretty common I think and can mean multiple different things and all of them requires some inner work..
You don't want a relationship but you enjoy the idea of it especially with this specific person and your idealized version of them so when it becomes reality you get snapped out of the fantasy and realize it's not what you want.
You are insecure and therefore only interested in men not seemingly interested in you, because you don't like yourself.
You are immature and cant appreciate an honest person who's open with their emotions.
You're scared of getting hurt so when the possibility of a relationship arises you withdraw. This can be subconciously. We're not always honest with ourselves or fully aware of how we feel.
I feel like the attraction is more so in the beginning then it leaves a little comes back leaves again and repeats. Its like if you dont really like someone and you get rejected you like them more for a while. Maybe you should try dating them for a bit and see if the attraction comes back.
I am a guy and my crush did this to me,
can you please focus on your deepest thoughts about why you feel like that?
and please tell me, if you find the reason
because, I really love ^her a lot